TheNewRanger Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 So me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 10 months now, but there is this guy I don't like that she constantly talks to. She knows I dont like him and doesnt tell me when she talks to him or hangs out with him because of it. He constantly tries to call her baby and stuff and I dont like that. It is weird because she was first very uncomfortable around him but now shes cool with him. She says that he feels bad for him and what he went through (family members died). I also think she plays along to much and feeds into him. He once made her say that she loved him when she didnt want to. But it annoys me because she is naturally flirtatious and can be to friendly sometimes. She even called him husband once and I got very upset. We have a very great relationship and this is the only thing we have fought about and almost broke up twice because of it. Am I overreacting?
Author TheNewRanger Posted September 26, 2012 Author Posted September 26, 2012 just to clarify I dont think shes cheating on me and never accused her of such. I just dont understand the friendship and Ive asked her on many occasions to tell him to chill, and she said she would be hes being very persistent.
Minka333 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 You are not overreacting. To call a guy "husband",be flirty or another guy calling your gf "baby" are huge red flags. She should only reserve saying all those things for you. I guess your gf prolly likes the attention and the flattery that feeds her ego.
BrokeninHalf Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 You are not overreacting! Why would she tell him she loves him, when she hardley knows him! I am sure she wouldn't like it if the table was turned. He sounds like a freek and she needs to stay away from him. If she can't, I would move on.
sadguy82 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 When my wife was younger she was fooled by one of these so called "friends". She also regrets ever talking and "hanging out" with this guy! Eventually he is going to try to sleep with her. She is going to be in a confused state and likely feel obligated to do so. These so called "friends" use manipulation to get into girls pants. If you love your girl you need to make sure this "friendship" ends and don't just believe her when she says it's over. Stay on top of it and MATURELY communicate about it untill you know in fact she is not talking to him anymore. You can also contact this guy yourself and just simply talk to him. Be respectful and never loose your cool or else you will just be the bad guy, and give him more reasons to get your girl to cheat with him. Just be careful how ever you handle it and how you carry yourself. Don't go into rage mode or act over jealous it will just push her away. G/L your in a tricky and could be devastating situation.
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