janetl Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 I went on a date with a friend's friend. We are both divorced. I was told by the mutual friend that he had a hard time but is leaggly divorced a year ago. He seems like a great guy, and I will want to take this ahead. But I today found out that his ex-wife has "like"d his FB pictures as recently as last month. I will confront him when we get to know each other little better. But I wonder now if I want to get to know him better. They are not friends on Facebook anymore, but his profile is quite public (so she could like pictures). What does this mean?
LittlePrince Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 I went on a date with a friend's friend. We are both divorced. I was told by the mutual friend that he had a hard time but is leaggly divorced a year ago. He seems like a great guy, and I will want to take this ahead. But I today found out that his ex-wife has "like"d his FB pictures as recently as last month. I will confront him when we get to know each other little better. But I wonder now if I want to get to know him better. They are not friends on Facebook anymore, but his profile is quite public (so she could like pictures). What does this mean? If only people read books instead of facebooks.
heather_1 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Don't read too much into it at the moment. I say get to know him better and then after a few dates if you can't get it out of your mind just casually drop it into the conversation. It probably isnt a big deal at all.
DC4 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 It means absolutely nothing. I am friends with my ex but I'd rather be shot in the face than be romantically involved with him again. 1
utterer of lies Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Oh no, his ex doesn't hate his guts. Red flag, red flag. oO 2
Author janetl Posted September 27, 2012 Author Posted September 27, 2012 I wish people were not sarcastic on these forums. Does not help.
underwater2010 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Well it depends....do they have kids together? How long was the marriage? Why the divorce?
whichwayisup Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 I went on a date with a friend's friend. We are both divorced. I was told by the mutual friend that he had a hard time but is leaggly divorced a year ago. He seems like a great guy, and I will want to take this ahead. But I today found out that his ex-wife has "like"d his FB pictures as recently as last month. I will confront him when we get to know each other little better. But I wonder now if I want to get to know him better. They are not friends on Facebook anymore, but his profile is quite public (so she could like pictures). What does this mean? Confront? A sure way of messing up something that could be a good thing. All you have to do is ask how involved is his ex wife in his life? Do they have children? If so, she is going to be in his life, more than you'd like.
Author janetl Posted September 28, 2012 Author Posted September 28, 2012 Confront is a strong word I used; I did not mean it that way... No, they don't have kids.
Author janetl Posted September 28, 2012 Author Posted September 28, 2012 Well it depends....do they have kids together? How long was the marriage? Why the divorce? The marriage was long, 12 years... with periods of separation in last 2-3 years. Why the divorce; don't know: that's part of getting to know him well. But he is the nicest guy I have met in a long time.
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