robaday Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 My last email to my ex I told her i loved her and would miss her. I wasnt expecting to get her back, I simply wanted to get it off my chest. While I dont feel bad that I said it, I felt I needed to at the time, she then blocked me on all social networks and told me not to contact her again....... It was the only real contact we had following saying goodbye in person 2 days prior, so its not like I harrassed her or begged, it was mutual breakup, although I had tried it to talk it through with her at the last minute. Reckon the email pushed her away? or was this always going to happen? guess it doesnt matter in a way because its over
Dblock10 Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 brave to speak your emotions to her. so hat off for that. i think she either doesnt care and no longer wants to hear from you, orr it effected her and made her feel guilty so she felt to avoid this, best bet would be to delete.. your'll never know but its not a nice thing for someone to do, esp if it was a mutual bu?!
Author robaday Posted September 26, 2012 Author Posted September 26, 2012 Its a shock because shes never cut me out before. Known her five years, wed break up and always get back together, whether it was her who did the breaking up or me. We couldnt let each other go. All I can do is let go. Its been 3 weeks and havent heard from her. I doubt I will for a long time, I find you normally hear from people in the first two months, at least from my previous experience.
Dblock10 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 sorry to hear that buddy. in that case she is clearly taking a stance on it this time. Breaking the cycle so to speak. you might be right 2 months or 90 days is usually the amount if time it takes. she may be trying to hide something or someone. My first ex did that by deleting me but looking back I think it was to hurt me less
Clinton5 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 I feel like a pushover? The reason is that I come across as someone that is too nice. I definitely am someone who will put my foot down if necessary, but until then, I like to keep the peace with people because I don't feel it's necessary to go off and start creating fire with people. How do I show people that I won't be pushed over without creating a feud with people I meet, or without looking like someone who can be taken advantage of?
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