pao000 Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Hey, thanks for the posts... here's more on my relationship. When we broke up it was not because we did n't love eachother or because we were having problems... in fact we were as good as it got at that point. He had issues with his residency, and had to go back home and wait over a year to come back. I tryed to move over there but I was trying to put my self throught college and he understood that , we spoke about it and decided to keep in touch and try again if he was able to come back... well, he came back unannounce in the middle of the night and all those feelings came back and here we are. (By the way I am turning 23 next wednesday and he is 24). I say he's possesive because he wants me to himself... he's jelous about everyone. He wants to know were I am when he calls and who with. Things like that maybe its not possesive but controlling. He has always made an argument out of things we disagree on, but never in a hurtfull way like this last argument. I did tell him how I felt with him telling be he didn't want to be seen with me if my hair was dyed but his response was "you should of thought about my feeling"... the thing is I thought I did... I asked him and he said go ahead. I could put up with him telling me 'I hate it please as soon as you can dye it back.! That I can probably deal with but what he's doing now SUUUUUUUUUCKS!
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Is this the type of relationship you want to invest your energy in?
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