Stick Around or Move on?

[Oohlala21]

I got out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago which ended on not the best terms, and soon after I met this girl (yes I'm a girl) who expressed interest in me. She pursued me pretty hard, opening up about a lot of personal experiences, and feelings. During the time we were getting to know each other, she also opened up about being in the process of a divorce and custody battle. I'm fairly young (mid twenties) and am use to dating older people; she's about 10 years my senior, so the whole divorce, etc didn't bother me at all.

 

We start hanging out, going on dates and texting non stop. I usually dislike talking on the phone and we would talk on the phone for hours throughout the night. We eventually started hooking up (no sex) and everything seemed to be cool. I started to develop some feelings, which really surprised me because I'm usually very guarded and my last relationship made it a bit worse.

 

Long story short, we talked and hung out all the time but things changed when I had to leave town for a week for work. She insisted I let her know when I made it there safely but while away the communication slowed down. I was extremely busy and made sure to call whenever I had free time but mainly had to resort to texting. Texts from her started to become less frequent and when I came back home I didn't hear from her at all. After a few days of me being home, she told me she had been really busy and stressed with the divorce, court, etc. but wasn't ignoring me. We went out on a date almost 2 weeks ago and I haven't really heard from her since. I even sent her a text last week to see if she was ok, and no reply.

 

I can see she still posts things on Facebook, so I can only assume that this time she is ignoring me and I don't know why. Should I maybe call her and see whats going on or should I just leave it alone and move on?

Edited September 25, 2012 by Oohlala21

[DC4]

MUCH easier said than done-but you need to move on. Her actions (or lack thereof) pretty much tell the story.

 

I really, REALLY hate when that happens

[Oohlala21]

MUCH easier said than done-but you need to move on. Her actions (or lack thereof) pretty much tell the story.

 

I really, REALLY hate when that happens

 

Well that really sucks. I've never had this happen before. I can handle someone no longer being interested in me for whatever reason, but I find it completely rude, inconsiderate and childish to just ignore someone and disappear without an explanation.

[truth_seeker]

It's easier for some people to pretend you don't exist, hoping you'll get the hint and go away. It's weak and inconsiderate but it goes to show you what kind of character they have. If she does contact you, give her the same treatment.