isangformischa Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 Ok so the whole back story: I was with my ex for awhile, then he randomly tells me that he got fired from his job so he can't be in a relationship. I was like ...ok. Later he tells me that we don't really have the same personalities but he still wanted to be friends. So then he blocks me on facebook and deletes his email right after so out of confusion I went over and left a note as his door to ask him to explain what happened. He made a new email and we talked for a bit, later I went over to get something I gave him back. When I get there we talked about what happened, turns out different personalities theory he had was wrong so he felt kind of like a jackass. Then he says deleting his email was stupid and he wants me to be able to talk to him if I have a problem and be friends and what not. So I told him to let me know if he doesn't want contact so this whole mess doesn't happen again. Now I think he's ignoring me. What in the world happened?
LostOne1 Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 not sure.. hard to say. If he did indeed lose his job, then maybe he's just having a panick attack and he isn't thinking properly. It could be just one of those emotional states you go into and you do crazy things, because you can't think properly.
Author isangformischa Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 I guess I don't understand why he's acting like this. He said his exes screwed him over and now he's essentially doing the same thing
Calico Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 He seems a "little" unstable at the moment. Maybe he's just stressed over the job situation, or perhaps he's fallen out of love, or met someone else, and is just making excuses -- and now wants to friend-zone you. It's unlikely that you did anything wrong (when we get dumped, we always blame ourselves and drown in "what if..." scenarios). It's probably best to completely ignore him and try to get to an emotional place where you can accept that this relationship may be over, at least for now. Not an easy road.
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