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10 year b/up...both trying for reconciliation...but are we?


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So we are supposed to be working on things, trying to get our family back so our 6 year old daughter can have mum & dad happy and back togethor again. We have both moved out of our house, 11 weeks since brek up this week. I have moved back to my parents with our daughter, he has been living at a friends flat out the back of their house. Both of us have remained faithful through this break up.

 

Im the one trying the most. he says he wants us to keep working on things, that he will always love me because we have a daughter togethor but he has lost all the love he had for me? and he is working on getting his feeligs back and us back on track. Been a rocky road since the break up, have had 2 "sleep-overs/dinners"and quite a few arguments but had a big talk at his house last night. Told each other what we expect from each other.

 

I am moving into my parents rental in 3 weeks, I told him that I want us to start working on things, he stay more and see how we go and after xmas if we seem to be getting back on track that we will start to look for a new house togethor, that all 3 of us can move into and start our happy future again and he said ideally thats what I want to.

 

he is going away in the morning for 8 days, so I am going to not contact him while he is gone, obviously I will hear from him daily as he calls to speak to our daughter, but when he gets back, if he doesnt start making the effort he says he has been and wants, then I am going to silenty let us go. Its all I can do to cope. So lets hope I can do this, and Im going to keep updating here so I can see my progress, for myself, and for us.

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