mronederful Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 when and why did the "12 year old look" become mainstream?? i just recently came back into the dating scene and this girl i was seeing was as bald as a baby! it freaked me out. i felt so dirty! like a damn pedophile. what the hell happened ??? trim it back a little bit but don't shave it all off !!!
reasontosigh Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I prefer to be cleanly shaved. Once in a while in late winter I do tend to get a bit lazy about it, though, so when I do start up again it's almost like a rite of spring for me. What I can say is that the guys I know (ranging in age from late 20's to early 50's) that I've talked to about it actually prefer it themselves. Two of them have actually been with me and they loved it!
suzanne Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 I agree. I can't imagine why a woman ( or man ) thinks shaved is sexy; unless linked to those years of youth before the bush. And thank goodness not all men want the shaved look; as a matter of fact in my many years as a single woman, now days most men I meet ask that ?? right off the bat! I say, hell no !! and they say" THANK GOODNESS! " God gave me a bush to match my animal nature and any real man knows that! I feel like it's the jokes poked at women, the more and more skimpy clothes and under garmets ... etc ... I think we should be groomed as needed. But the 12 yr old look ; how dare a man want that. Even in mags, how chilodish it looks .. not a bit sexy. But that's just my opinion; and every man that I've met, with few exceptions.
dyermaker Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 Originally posted by suzanne how dare a man want that. Really? How dare they? I would think it's a matter of opinion, not perversion. It's socially acceptable for a man to desire hairless legs or hairless upper lips--is that indicitave of pedophilia as well?
moimeme Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 I have to agree. Humans grow hair as a sign of maturity; the prepubescent look grosses me out. I must be still pretty close to my primitive roots, because hair=attractive to me. Don't care if it's on the head (bald guys have more testosterone anyway ) but anyplace else is peachy by me hairless legs or hairless upper lips Neither are genitalia. However, hairy anything can indicate more testosterone, which is the hormone governing sex drive in both genders. So look again at that moustachioed mama - she may be a tiger
Samson Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 So look again at that moustachioed mama - she may be a tiger Or any one of the other members of the animal kingdom
moimeme Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 Why Samson, you surprise me. I thought all men wanted their women to be 'animals' in bed!
Samson Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 We want them to ACT LIKE ANIMALS, Of course, there are going to be the saddly odd guy that actually wants them to be an animal.
moimeme Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 We want them to ACT LIKE ANIMALS Really? (feigns surprise) Thanks for telling me! I had no idea!!!
Author mronederful Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 well it looks like there is some measure of hope. she won't let it grow and it grosses me out to look at it! i kinda like when it tickles my nose, i'm sick like that. hairy armpits and legs is kind of a turnoff, well the armpits anyway. it makes me feel like i'm changing a child's diaper and i'm actually "looking" i'm sick but i am not that sick! it's your cooch, do with it as you will but to all the girls that don't shave..... i'll be lookin for ya!
Max Zoom Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Max is usually way too happy having found a pussy to eat to worry about what it's wearing.
Mr Spock Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Originally posted by Max Zoom Max is usually way too happy having found a pussy to eat to worry about what it's wearing. BRAVO!!!!!!!! I used to feel the same way-bald was odd. Now, bald is beautiful. Ask her if she'll grow a teeny little landing strip patch like in hustler if it creeps you out. If one has to haul out a weed whacker to engage in a little cunnilingus(sic) than perhaps less is more in this situation.
InmannRoshi Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Its natural for a man to grow his beard down Grizzly Adams/ZZ Top style, and if a woman doesn't find that attractive than she must want a prebuscent little boy.
dyermaker Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Beards aren't genitals--that seems to be moi's response, although I agree with you.
Mikie Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Originally posted by mronederful when and why did the "12 year old look" become mainstream?? i just recently came back into the dating scene and this girl i was seeing was as bald as a baby! it freaked me out. i felt so dirty! like a damn pedophile. what the hell happened ??? trim it back a little bit but don't shave it all off !!! Every chick I've dated has had a brazilain done or is trimmed... ala "runway strip" I wouldn't have it any other way
Author mronederful Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 well, i am in the minority, i prefer jungle love to bald monkey
faux Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 I don't like hair getting in the way. I don't want to floss my teeth unless I am in the bathroom, and I've just brushed, and I am using dental floss. I like something neatly trimmed, short and maintained. I have been with people who shaved completely, didn't shave or trim at all, and those who have trimmed very nicely. I would say that I prefer someone who is very nicely trimmed, and perhaps shaved in certain areas. I still like a little bit of hair down there, but it has to be kept very neat. I trim/shave myself, even when I am not with anybody at the time. I just like to be well-groomed. The women that have shaved told me it makes the sensations even better, as they feel closer without the hair getting in the way.
TheOptimist23 Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 I think hairy armpits on women are quite sexy. All these people who find them so disgusting are going to be in real trouble if the power goes out. Just goes to show how after a bit cultural conditioning and many think that is the natural way. Not that I care too much, but I do find it interesting why so many people find it a turnoff...and suspect freud would too
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 I think a lot of it is the media influence of sexualizing girls at an earlier age. Social conditioning, indeed!
GirlDown Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 Originally posted by suzanne I agree. I can't imagine why a woman ( or man ) thinks shaved is sexy; unless linked to those years of youth before the bush. i shave, i have for quite a while, and i can promise you it has nothing do with any of my youthful years. ew. that's like if i said "people who don't shave are trying to go backward to look more like monkeys." but since i feel it's a matter of personal preference, i would not say that. it's been years since i have met a man that desired a hairy bush, and the number one complaint is that, no matter how clean you are, the hair harbours too much of the scent...scent is natural, i know. ...so are the scents of vomit and flatulence. personally, i don't think it's anyone's business who shaves and who doesn't. but i have no problem saying that i shave, and i have no problem with those who don't.
Author mronederful Posted February 28, 2005 Author Posted February 28, 2005 i like to "accidentally" lick her armpits when i'm "gettin busy with the boobies" i haven't ran into hairy armpits yet, but it would probably be kinda weird. i don't like hair EVERYWHERE, legs should be shaved, as well as armpits, but i like a nice soft furry bush
mountainman Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 i personnally like a woman with shaved genitals and head, hairy legs and armpits, and a beard like ZZ top. They are hard to find however. But when you do, talk about ANIMAL!!!!!
Author mronederful Posted March 1, 2005 Author Posted March 1, 2005 with a user name like "mountainman" i expected nothing less. LOL
ReluctantRomeo Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 I'm not so bothered by the Brazilian/landing strip thing. What does irritate is the sandpaper feeling of being scratched by the stubble...
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