jnub09 Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 Well after having a big fallout that ended in me crying about her rejecting me and her crying the same night. We have been talking for over a year and it has been rough at some points. We have been through a lot because of my feelings for her and it hurts me to know that I may never get a chance. Even though I wont get a chance, I want to support her in everything that she does and I really want her to know that. I fear that if I let her know again she will shy away from me. It just hurts to see other guys get a shot and me to never have one. I know its not about that, but my feelings are not changing. I dont want to control and I want her to have her freedom. I haven't shown her that in the past. Ever since the last rejection, I stopped talking to her for a month even though we see each other everyday. One thing that kills me is that even though the possibility of me never getting a chance are very high, there is something in me that says I still have hope. Uhh this has been going on for a year and I dont know what to do. I want to be here for her and support her, but my feelings for her cries for more than a friendship. What should I do?
ja123 Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 You should move on. Make your peace silently. Go quietly. Grieve. But move on. Make room in your heart to meet someone who can love you back. I'm sorry it didn't work out with her. Love relationships can really hurt, sometimes. You are not alone in your grief, many of us have been there. Hang in.
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