ScreamingTrees Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 Come on! You need to grow some nuts. You are not as good as you think. They only reason you hear this woman's problems is because you want to get in her pants. She doesn't want you because deep down you are a jealous guy that hides behind a facade of nice. You think because you are nice that she should see you as a great catch and choose you. You do all this to feel superior. I know you think I'm better than the player because I'm nice. The reality is in some ways you are no different than him. NEWSFLASH!! Attraction doesn't work that way. The player is more genuine than you would ever be. He doesn't hide behind nice like a wimp. So you'd hang out with a guy who has no respect for anyone, just because he "keeps it real"? I'll bet you THIS thing would say she keeps it "real".. Same as any other person you'd see on that show, and every other low life low-IQ trash. It's the same tired **** as a guy saying "oh, woe is me, I'm so nice, why won't girls go for me?" to me. It's the same fake transparent bull****, just in different ways and for different reasons. Don't try to tell me one extreme's any better than the other, people who say/think these things suck in equal measure in my eyes. You can be a genuine person without having to act like an arrogant *******.
carhill Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 thanks, everybody for the insight. Some really good stuff. Definitely keep it all in mind next time. I don't play games and got caught up with some professional players. Pros vs Joes. Way out of my leauge. Gonna keep my head up and mouth shut and be way more careful where I put my heart next time round. IME, learning to care less and with a more detached style maintains 'goodness', meaning treating others in a healthy and respectful way, while better respecting one's personal boundaries of fair and equitable treatment and love. One aspect to examine, looking in the mirror, is what you get out of the process of loving such people. There's always a reason if you look for it long enough and deep enough. We all have our reasons. I found some that were, frankly, shocking, on a number of levels. Good luck. 1
Recommended Posts