its her brother's birthday

[Blueman12]

and I really want to break NC to just say to wish him happy birthday...but I think secretly i think it will make her realize that i'm a good guy and I remembered, etc...someone convince me not to if its the wrong thing to do..

[bluefairy812]

and I really want to break NC to just say to wish him happy birthday...but I think secretly i think it will make her realize that i'm a good guy and I remembered, etc...someone convince me not to if its the wrong thing to do..

 

don't do it, i'd reach out to the brother personally, not through the ex! that just screams for attention and that u only did it to talk to her!

[geegirl]

and I really want to break NC to just say to wish him happy birthday...but I think secretly i think it will make her realize that i'm a good guy and I remembered, etc...someone convince me not to if its the wrong thing to do..

 

You shouldn't have to scheme your way into making someone realize you are a good guy. She should already know. And if she broke up with you knowing you are a good person, a birthday wish won't make her see you any differently.

 

Don't do it. It reeks desperation.

[Calico]

Well, and if that doesn't work, I'm sure she has more relatives and pets with birthdays.

[Blueman12]

thanks for all the feedback, you guys are right, i just need to tough it out

[loveunlimited]

yeah you do because guess what, it's not a secret any more, we all know....

[veggirl]

her brothers birthday? cmon man. that is a weak excuse to break nc! who cares if it's her brothers bday? if you truthfully want to wish him a happy bday then call HIM and do it. but really, if you're honest, you don't care that it is his bday, you care that it is a reason (you hope) to break nc. resist!!!!

[Simon Phoenix]

This is bad idea jeans.

[love does not exist]

F.uck her brothers birthday

[RogerWallace111]

^ that.....

 

if youre close enough to him that wishing him a happy birthday is necessary, you'll have his number and can tell him personally