Frazzle Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 There's this girl who seemed interested in me when I was talking to her. She remarked how I looked like I worked out even though it was the first time we talked. She also asked for my number. However, we haven't really talked since then. I'm really confused because afterwards, I found out that it's common for her and her friends to ask for numbers. She even asked for my friend's number and her friend asked for my number as well. The other day, she talked to my friend and told him how she thought I was a good guy/nice guy and wanted to get to know me better/get closer to me. What does she mean by this? Sounds like a friend thing then?
homjung Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 Waiting, she maybe talk to your friend for ask about you. you can talk to your friend what they talk about.
GirlontheLam Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 Have you called her? She is sending hints through your social circle, but not trying to make a direct move. Ask her out for coffee or something.
Author Frazzle Posted September 24, 2012 Author Posted September 24, 2012 I just wanted to see if people had any other advice.
phineas Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 Seriously? It means you call and ask her out so she can get to know you. This is called dating. Over a few dates you learn what she really wants & what you really want.
Author Frazzle Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 Seriously? It means you call and ask her out so she can get to know you. This is called dating. Over a few dates you learn what she really wants & what you really want. Why didn't she tell me but told my friend instead?
Author Frazzle Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 Let me guess OP, you're 13. Maybe, and that was very helpful.
ChatroomHero Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Maybe, and that was very helpful. Well frazzle look at what you posted. You basically posted that a girl has shown a good deal of interest and told your friend she was interested and you are asking what it means.
phineas Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Why didn't she tell me but told my friend instead? Well frazzle look at what you posted. You basically posted that a girl has shown a good deal of interest and told your friend she was interested and you are asking what it means. I realize this isn't the 1800's & women are allowed out of the kitchen & equal rights and all that, but you are obviously young & unless you are built like Thor or captain america from the movie you are going to have to do some leg work for the ladies because the hotter they are the more penises they have trained on them at all times. Now, why would a woman risk rejection by asking you out when she's got ton's of options asking her out every time she leaves the house?
mortensorchid Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 The only way to find out is to call or find her again and ask her out, go do something, and get to know one another. So go for it.
Author Frazzle Posted September 26, 2012 Author Posted September 26, 2012 Well frazzle look at what you posted. You basically posted that a girl has shown a good deal of interest and told your friend she was interested and you are asking what it means. It's just I'm really bad at reading these "signs." I tend to mistake friendliness for flirting and interest so I just wanted to make sure I'm not over-analyzing it. Btw, I don't mean to sound antagonistic or whatever. I really appreciate the answers.
Author Frazzle Posted September 29, 2012 Author Posted September 29, 2012 An update: she asked my friend about me again. She asked him how she could become friends with me. I think I'm definitely going to go for it now. Maybe just as friends but it's worth the risk.
jcrew11 Posted September 29, 2012 Posted September 29, 2012 Hah, How old are you? Girls under 21 are flakey, and so are guys. But the only thing you can do is just give it a try and ask her out or talk to her on the phone, or talk to her at a party at a friends house. Go to the movies with groups of friends. You'll be banging her in no time.
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