Not sure what to make of this response.

[tori0001]

I've been dating someone for about 6 weeks. We have not seen a lot of each other, nor talk a lot because of his professional and personal life. In doing my own soul searching and before becoming too emotionally involved, I sent him a message yest telling him how I felt. The lack of communication, some phone time, and how often we see each other. I know he can't follow through because of how busy he is, and our distance. I said good bye, take care, blah, blah. He sends me a message this morning, it says good morning, have a great day. Wtf. I haven't replied, I don't get it. Not a word about what I said. Any opinions. Thanks.

[LDRGuy]

How was the relationship in that 6 weeks? On a safe side, ask him whether he received your message yesterday?

[Emilia]

I believe I warned you of this OP before: you wanted to 'date' but without a fully involved, committed relationship, you wanted it to be closer to a friendship. If I remember correctly, he still lives in the same house as his wife or something similar, though apparently separated. It seems you have become emotionally invested.

 

A messy situation to be involved in in my opinion.

[tori0001]

We barely seen one another because of the distance, and his work sheduel, and the fact he has a daughter he wants to spend time with. He travels a lot for work. Every morning he would say good morning. No meaningful conversations. I felt this is a waste of my time. I need more substance. I need to talk. Not everyday, but more then a paragraph, or one or 2 liners. Would like to talk it least 2 to 3 times a week. When we where together, we got along great.

[tori0001]

He totally ignored everything I said, like I didn't say it. I'll don't think I'll respond, because I know nothing will change. I don't need heart ache.

[Emilia]

Are you ready for a relationship OP?

[tori0001]

I would like one. My personal life is such a mess. I can't even go into it. My fear is, if I really get involoved, and start to care, the man will take it off, because my personal life is crazy. I don't think it's fair to drag someone into it. They wouldn't understand.

[Emilia]

I would like one. My personal life is such a mess. I can't even go into it. My fear is, if I really get involoved, and start to care, the man will take it off, because my personal life is crazy. I don't think it's fair to drag someone into it. They wouldn't understand.

 

I remember some of the issues you mentioned and your saying that it's crazy. That definitely makes it a challenge for both parties. If you don't think it's fair to drag someone into it, it means you will have these half-assed solutions where one of you gets fed up with the status quo and leaves after a couple of months.

[tori0001]

It would have been nice if he would have said to me this morning, I understand how you feel, or something just like that. Strange.

[Emilia]

It would have been nice if he would have said to me this morning, I understand how you feel, or something just like that. Strange.

 

The two of you don't have an emotional connection. I'm guessing there is only so much he can handle with his current situation.

[tori0001]

You're right. In my message to him, I said if things change in the future, there may be a possibility to see if there is anything. He has way too much going on in his life. We both do, so there's no middle ground.