Massages (Share your Expieriences)

[pinton]

Hi everyone, ok so the topic of this Thread is all about "Massage" in all its various forms, be it therapeutic, sensual or otherwise

 

As a brief intro, and just to get things started, my wife and I are very passionate about Massage, and we have both shared many experiences over the past few years with many different forms of Massage, and some of these have been in some very unusual places and in some rather exotic settings, and I will be more than happy to share our experiences with you as we go along, if there is any interest shown by other members in this topic.

 

So, if you have any interest in any form of Massage, please be my guest and share your thoughts and/or experiences with us, as i know my Wife and I are very keen to hear about other peoples experiences with their Massages.

 

now, please be respectful of other posters, and present your posts in a nice, friendly manner for all to enjoy, and guys, please refrain from posting up stories about some seedy sexcapade you may have had in shady massage parlor somewhere, i dont think we, nor other members need to hear those kinds of stories, we just want to here about the nice experiences people have had with their Massages.

 

so, on that note, please feel free to fire away and share your experiences with us all.

 

cheers everyone

Edited September 25, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[FitChick]

I've done that for years with boyfriends. Who knew it had a name? It's a form of erotic massage. No special gel needed. KY will do.

[Art_Critic]

my thoughts are that you are selling massage gel thru the url on the bottom of the wiki article

I might not be right but those are my thoughts.... you asked

Edited September 25, 2012 by Art_Critic

[cerridwen]

I've never heard of Nuru massage but I did have a sensational traditional Thai massage.

Loose clothes are worn and you're gently moved into yoga like positions that soothe and stretch.

Zero effort is required on your part.

Was yummy!

Ever try that, OP?

Edited September 25, 2012 by cerridwen

[pinton]

my thoughts are that you are selling massage gel thru the url on the bottom of the wiki article

I might not be right but those are my thoughts.... you asked

 

hi, yes it is very true, you most definately "might not be right"

 

i have put the wiki link there for those who were curious what Nuru Massage was, not to sell some Nuru Gel ???

 

i didnt even know there was a link inside that wiki link that offers the Gel for sale ???

 

anyway, because i had not had any replies to this thread up until just now, i asked William to replace the text in my opening post with new text, just to shorten it and skip all the stuff about "our" experiences to start off with.

 

we are curious to hear of other peoples experiences with any form of massage, but i am certainly not selling anything

Edited September 25, 2012 by pinton

[freestyle]

I've never heard of Nuru massage but I did have a sensational traditional Thai massage.

Loose clothes are worn and you're gently moved into yoga like positions that soothe and stretch.

Zero effort is required on your part.

Was yummy!

Ever try that, OP?

 

 

If you ever get the chance, Cerri--I'd like to recommend getting a lomi-lomi massage--it's Hawaiin.

 

I had one a few months ago, and it was amazing---incredible stuff...

[pinton]

I've done that for years with boyfriends. Who knew it had a name? It's a form of erotic massage. No special gel needed. KY will do.

 

ok KY Gel is basically just a "lubricant" (that was what it was originally designed for) although it can be used for massage if thats the sort of stuff you choose to use for your massages, but be assured that KY Gel is most definately not the same as actual "Nuru Gel" and has nothing like the feel or sensation of KY Gel either, 2 totally different products, made for 2 totally different purposes.

 

if you ever get the chance to use nuru gel, you will know what i am talking about

 

im not sure if i can post links to a video that shows what this Gel is actually like, however a google search will find some pretty good results.

 

you tend to use quite a lot of this Gel during a massage and you can buy the ingrediants and make it yourself if you wish to, however it must be applied while it is "warm" and the body should be wet as well, preferably have a warm shower before the massage helps warm and soften the skin.

 

If you ever get the chance, Cerri--I'd like to recommend getting a lomi-lomi massage--it's Hawaiin.

 

I had one a few months ago, and it was amazing---incredible stuff...

 

hi Freestyle, that one is new to me, i think i recall seeing the name mentioned somewhere, never looked into it tho, can you kind of describe it a bit better, and is it a traditional style massage which is localized to that part of the world ???

 

thx for sharing

Edited September 25, 2012 by pinton

[freestyle]

ok KY Gel is basically just a "lubricant" (that was what it was originally designed for) although it can be used for massage if thats the sort of stuff you choose to use for your massages, but be assured that KY Gel is most definately not the same as actual "Nuru Gel" and has nothing like the feel or sensation of KY Gel either, 2 totally different products, made for 2 totally different purposes.

 

if you ever get the chance to use nuru gel, you will know what i am talking about

 

cheers

 

 

 

hi Freestyle, that one is new to me, i think i recall seeing the name mentioned somewhere, never looked into it tho, can you kind of describe it a bit better, and is it a traditional style massage which is localized to that part of the world ???

 

thx for sharing

 

 

I only had it done once--so it won't be easy to describe....

 

One thing that stood out in my memory......

 

She had me lay on my back, and then lifted my head, neck, & part of my torso, and worked on the back of my neck & shoulder muscles from that angle--it actually felt better than laying on my stomach, which is how I've usually had my neck & shoulders worked on in the past.

 

She also used a lot of broad sweeping strokes, (i.e. foot to shoulder) which helps the energy feel more......integrated, --is the best word I can come up with for it.

 

I'd never heard of the technique before this year, either, so it was definitely new to me.

 

I'd highly recommend it, if you can find a practitioner in your area...

 

(you can also read up on it, via google...)

[pinton]

I've never heard of Nuru massage but I did have a sensational traditional Thai massage.

Loose clothes are worn and you're gently moved into yoga like positions that soothe and stretch.

Zero effort is required on your part.

Was yummy!

Ever try that, OP?

 

hi, sorry i almost missed this post in my eagerness to reply to other posts, i didnt think i was ever going to get any response to the thread given i had no replies until a short while ago, i almost gave up

 

anyway, yes, Thai (traditional) had been the most popular massage technique that my wife and i were having up until 12 months ago, as well as traditional swedish massage as well.

[cerridwen]

If you ever get the chance, Cerri--I'd like to recommend getting a lomi-lomi massage--it's Hawaiin.

 

I had one a few months ago, and it was amazing---incredible stuff...

 

I see lomi-lomi on the massage menu a lot.

Since you recommended it, I'll give it a go.

Thanks, Free.

[cerridwen]

hi, sorry i almost missed this post in my eagerness to reply to other posts, i didnt think i was ever going to get any response to the thread given i had no replies until a short while ago, i almost gave up

 

anyway, yes, Thai (traditional) had been the most popular massage technique that my wife and i were having up until 12 months ago, as well as traditional swedish massage as well.

 

Well, sometimes certain threads can take awhile to heat up.

I recall one entitled "What's Your Favorite Chip and Dip Combo?"

It languished for awhile then caught fire and went on for pages.

 

So where do you stand on Hot Stone Massages?

Think it's just a gimmick?

I do!

[pinton]

Hi everyone, apologies about the opening post being changed, it was a request that i made to the Mods to alter its content and to shorten it as a descriptive post on what this thread was all about.

 

I will post up the information i had in that opening post very shortly for those who missed the story i told about the experiences that my wife and I have had in the past.

 

Now, while i am here, and on the topic of Our experiences, i would like to share a couple of other experiences we have had in the past few years at a few health and lifestyle Spa's in spain and japan, and a few in some very remote parts of other regions across asia.

 

- for Him & Her there is the Tantric/Tantra Massage.

- for Him there is the amazing Lingham Worship massage.

- for Her there is the japanese Yoni massage.

 

Now, in case your wondering, these 3 techniques are not for prudes, you have to be fairly open minded if you wish to have any of these methods performed on you by other people, but they are simply amazing techniques when couples ever have the opportunity to perform them on each other.

 

Please google them if your not sure what they are

 

One of the Tantra Spa's we attended was called "The Goddess Temple" which is part of the Peter Hegre (Hegre-Art) health and well being Centre located in Sitges, Spain.

Edited September 25, 2012 by pinton

[todreaminblue]

Hi everyone, ok so the topic of this Thread is all about "Massage" in all its various forms, be it therapeutic, sensual or otherwise

 

As a brief intro, and just to get things started, my wife and I are very passionate about Massage, and we have both shared many experiences over the past few years with many different forms of Massage, and some of these have been in some very unusual places and in some rather exotic settings, and I will be more than happy to share our experiences with you as we go along, if there is any interest shown by other members in this topic.

 

So, if you have any interest in any form of Massage, please be my guest and share your thoughts and/or experiences with us, as i know my Wife and I are very keen to hear about other peoples experiences with their Massages.

 

now, please be respectful of other posters, and present your posts in a nice, friendly manner for all to enjoy, and guys, please refrain from posting up stories about some seedy sexcapade you may have had in shady massage parlor somewhere, i dont think we, nor other members need to hear those kinds of stories, we just want to here about the nice experiences people have had with their Massages.

 

so, on that note, please feel free to fire away and share your experiences with us all.

 

cheers everyone

 

 

i used to work as a masseuse untill my partner at th etime didtn wan tme to be massaging other men so i quit...........i used to like to give deep tissue massage i knew enough to do this..i have strength and i like to use it...with boyfriends i enjoy giving massages always have.....full body......they tend to fall asleep ......my favorite is a butterfly massage(thats what i call it) i used to give my sister this on when she was upset or sad when she was little just the fingertips light up and down dancing on her back.....she would be instantly calm while i did that........

 

i have upgraded my butterfly massage since then...i like to lol tease someone by finding their ticklish spots......normally it is the sides from the hip to the shoulder.....gives goosies....smilin.......i try really hard not to let them do it to me though...i am extremely ticklish........i do however like to give it......then i move quickly away before i get it back.....i find massage fun.....sensual and a way for me to be close to someone......when they start to go to sleep that is when i decide to find their ticklish spot....annoying for some.....not for me though....huge smiles.....lol.....deb

[pinton]

Well, sometimes certain threads can take awhile to heat up.

 

thx, yeah looks like the thread has taken off now, i was a bit nervous there for the first day or so, never got a single reply

 

So where do you stand on Hot Stone Massages?

Think it's just a gimmick? .... I do!

 

the jury is out on this "hot stone" massage in my view, sure it feels great, but it isnt a form of massage to me, so i dont really know, not my cup of tea.

 

cheers

[pinton]

Note: to those who missed my original opening post where i deleted all the bits about me and my wife's experiences with massage, i will post the story back up shortly for those who might not have read it yet, especially the bit about Nuru Massage

 

i used to work as a masseuse until my partner at the time didnt want me to be massaging other men so i quit

 

how selfish of him (nah i guess some guys just cant handle it)

 

i think my wife felt the same way a long time ago, i recall when we first started getting into massage on a serious level 5 years ago, we often talked about what it would be like being a massage therapist or "Giver" as i prefer to call it.

 

she often commented on how she would be jealous if i gave another woman a massage and she was naked, let alone giving a woman a "sensual" full body massage

 

these days after all our experiences with different technique's, we just dont see jealousy as an issue, and we are at a point now where we are now looking to expand our horizons and exploring new options and alternatives that are available for us.

 

my favorite is a butterfly massage(thats what i call it) i used to give my sister this on when she was upset or sad when she was little just the fingertips light up and down dancing on her back.....she would be instantly calm while i did that........

 

now reading your post really did give me a tingle down my back, sounds like a wonderful thing to have done on ones body, remind me to give you a buzz if we are ever in your area (we do travel a lot when we get the chance)

 

and i see your an Aussie too

Edited September 25, 2012 by pinton

[todreaminblue]

how selfish of him (nah i guess some guys just cant handle it)

 

i think my wife felt the same way a long time ago, i recall when we first started getting into massage on a serious level 5 years ago, we often talked about what it would be like being a massage therapist or "Giver" as i prefer to call it.

 

she often commented on how she would be jealous if i gave another woman a massage and she was naked, let alone giving a woman a "sensual" full body massage

 

these days after all our experiences with different technique's, we just dont see jealousy as an issue, and we are at a point now where we are now looking to expand our horizons and exploring new options and alternatives that are available for us.

 

 

 

now reading your post really did give me a tingle down my back, sounds like a wonderful thing to have done on ones body, remind me to give you a buzz if we are ever in your area (we do travel a lot when we get the chance)

 

and i see your an Aussie too

 

 

I actually could see my ex boyfriends point he knew what went on even though it wasnt advertised, the girls would go and drink afterwards and decided to intiate me welcome me to the fold.I only got the job because at the time he couldn't find work and it was good money.it was only months into our relationship and i had children i had to walk home after work and it was night shift.men did not only want massage.....it wasnt jealousy it was his right i was his.....

since you are an aussie you would know of ivan milat.....that is where i lived around him....didnt know back then that i did but i was out all hours of the night coming home and then looking after my kids hardly ever slept......god kept me safe.......i dont give massages to anyone who i dont care about anymore....haven't given one in years to a guy......and unless it was serious full body is out....i mean marriage ......lol....but you must be joking about the buzz thing......but thanks for the thought....but i have someone i am thinking of.....constantly and retardedly.....i dream of giving him a butterfly massage one day...just tell the woman you meet next how to give you one, probably do a much better job than me......;0)......good luck...

 

 

ps your wife should like to do this for you..deb

Edited September 25, 2012 by todreaminblue

[Art_Critic]

hi, yes it is very true, you most definately "might not be right"

 

i have put the wiki link there for those who were curious what Nuru Massage was, not to sell some Nuru Gel ???

 

i didnt even know there was a link inside that wiki link that offers the Gel for sale ???

 

anyway, because i had not had any replies to this thread up until just now, i asked William to replace the text in my opening post with new text, just to shorten it and skip all the stuff about "our" experiences to start off with.

 

we are curious to hear of other peoples experiences with any form of massage, but i am certainly not selling anything

 

I posted in your other thread and thought I would here too...

My apologies...

Sorry to lump you into the spammers we get here.

A typical spammer WILL post their first thread or 2 with links that sell products, so while you may not be a spammer your first thread certainly did make you look like one to me.

 

The wiki article you picked happened to have those links while most wiki articles do not that discuss techniques of massage.

 

Welcome to LS and I hope my accusations didn't tarnish your reputation here...

[pinton]

I posted in your other thread and thought I would here too...

My apologies...Welcome to LS and I hope my accusations didn't tarnish your reputation here...

 

its all good, at least i know where the forum stands in relation to spammers, and i now have an idea how these spammers operate, so some good has come from it, so we all move on and enjoy the forum.

 

cheers

[pinton]

ok so it appears there are not too many members who are into massage, or interested in this topic, so i guess i will just post up a bit of info i have on our more recent experiences, just to finish the thread off with.

 

ok, so for those who didnt already know from my original opening post to this thread, my wife has a very good friend (she is 45y/o of japanes/filipino decent) and she spent several years working in japan, and while working there, she also took up massage therapy, and is now fully qualified in various massage techniques, although she doesnt work in the massage profession.

 

anyway, when she returned from japan about 14 months ago, my wife and i were already seeing 2 other massage therapists 3 or 4 times a month, and one night my wife's friend asked us if we would like to have her do our massages rather than us paying someone else, so we took her up on the offer and from that night she became our regular massage giver, and we never looked back.

 

we started off having more traditional style massages like Swedish and Thai, always done as a solo (one on one) massage, but after about 4 months she moved into her brand new home that actually had a main bathroom that was designed and built based on a traditional "tantra" style spa, which had marble floors and walls, a 4 person wave spa, a huge walk in twin rose him & her shower, a big thermal heater was fixed to the ceiling, and there was this twin size inflatable air mattress that came out from this hidden door under the vanity basins and the mattress would be inflated using a can of compressed air.

 

this was a truly amazing room, just as we had seen in some of the spa's we had been to in our travels to various places around europe and asia.

 

anyway, it was at this particular point in time that our friend introduced us to her Tantra massage, which she actually carried out on both of us together as a couple, not as a solo massage the way it is usually carried out.

 

a few months later she introduced us to Nuru massage, which we had heard of, but never actually tried before, and just like the tantra massage, this has always been carried out on us as a couple, being together on the airbed mattress side by side, making it a truly wonderful experience.

 

now, last night we both went to our friends place again for dinner and one of our regular massage sessions, but this time my wife couldnt participate in having her massage with me because she had just started her monthly "cycle" that afternoon and didnt feel comfortable getting naked and being sloshed around for 45 minutes with Gel all over her body, so i had my Nuru done solo for the very first time, only the wife did get her gear off down to her nickers and helped her friend out from the sidelines using just her hands, and all i can say it was brilliant, and my wife absolutely loved it.

 

on our next visit in a few weeks, our friend has asked us if we would like her to bring along her new partner to join us for the Nuru massage with us, and my wife and i will be talking about it tonight after dinner because although we have both given women massages in the past, my wife has never actually done any form of massage on any other man except me, and has definately never had another man massage her before, except for a few of her gay nephews gay friends, which she was quite ok with.

 

we have a very good, stable relationship, and there has never been any insecurities or jealousy by either of us towards the other, even by my wife when i have massaged other women, its just something that we deal with very well as a couple, so i dont see any issues here, just being a progression from what we have had in the past, and evening up the odds a bit, just for something new and interesting, and although my wife may be a bit apprehensive to start with, im pretty certain she will be looking forward to it, especially knowing that he is our friends partner, and because i will be there with her as well.

 

anyway, if anyone out there, be it a couple, or a single, ever gets the opportunity to try a Tanta or a Nuru massage with someone, then all i can say is try it, you most definately will never forget it, but it is definately not something that prudes will want to try

 

cheers, and thanks to those who actually read the whole post

[ThaWholigan]

I'm definitely going to try it. I've given foot and back massages quite a few times to good effect.

[pinton]

I'm definitely going to try it. I've given foot and back massages quite a few times to good effect.

 

Hi, just remember that if you ever decide to try the Tantra technique, it does not require the nuru gel, you can use almost any kind of traditional massage oil that is available to you, although you can use nuru gel if you have some on hand, or you could use a good quality Ultrasound Gel which can be bought in large quantities at very cheap prices (in australia at least) and it can have added water to thin it out to suit your needs.

 

if you want a really nice quality water based massage oil that contains no nutty oils, we always use a product called Melrose H20il Massage Lotion, but im not sure if it is available outside australia, and we use it because a lot of massage lotions contain oils derived from nuts or nut based fruits, and these types of oils irritate my skin.

 

to give you an idea of what i am saying, these are the the actual products that we personally use for our own massages, and i would like to stipulate that we are in no way affiliated with either of these 2 companies other than to buy their products, and i use these links for reference only.

 

Melrose H20il Massage Lotion

 

Health Products, organic health, Omega 3 fatty oils, Melrose Health, Australia, omega 3 fatty acids, organic food, organic products, tea tree oil

 

the ultrasound gel i referred to as a replacement for Nuru gel is this one

 

Health Products, organic health, Omega 3 fatty oils, Melrose Health, Australia, omega 3 fatty acids, organic food, organic products, tea tree oil

 

our preferred Nuru Gel

 

Nuru Gel Australia Pty Ltd :: Nuru Massage Gel

 

please, if these links are not appropriate for any reason, then please remove them from my post, but its very difficult to offer product suggestions to people without posting links up for reference.

Edited October 1, 2012 by pinton

[pinton]

ok hi again, have been in hospital having surgery on my hand, so been a while since i visited.

 

just thought i would update my thread with some new info for those who might be interested, although it does seem that there are not very many followers of this topic here in the forum, but please read if you are interested.

 

as i have already mentioned in this thread, we both have regular Massages (including joint Tantra & Nuru Massages) with my wifes best friend in her home, and when her new partner recently returned from working in japan for 2 years, my wifes friend suggested one night during one of our regular sessions with her that all 4 of us might like to get together one night and indulge in a 4-some Nuru Massage, and after my wife and i discussed this with each other, we decided to give it a go, i am very happy to report that we finally got together with them and shared our first ever 4-some Nuru Massage with her friend and her partner, and it was the most amazing experience, and although my wife was very nervous to start with, once we got going she was totally fine, and it was her first ever experience being naked with another guy present, and actually massaging another guy, and also having her body touched (massaged sensually) by another guy.

 

i think it was made easier because the other woman was my wifes friend and our regular massage giver, and we all went out for dinner before we returned to our friends home for the massage.

 

the night of the massage, we all went out for dinner and we had a chat about the Massage session, and we all agreed that we would be happy to start the Nuru with our own partners, then swap over partners when it felt right to do so, and we agreed that on this occasion it would not include any form of penetration (intercourse) with the opposite partner, but we did agree that anything else was fine, including a "happy ending" if everyone was comfortable doing so, and i can tell you that there was never any hesitation from any of us once it got going, it just flowed on for about 1 hour, and that time was spent equally massaging both partners, then we all finished the nuru with a happy ending each given by the opposite partner, then followed by a 30 minute spa in her new 4 person spa bath.

 

we had decided that night that in late november we would all get together again for the same thing, but it has been postponed because of my arm being in a cast after my operation 2 weeks ago, however we have discussed it over another dinner with our friends, and when i have made a full recovery, we will be doing it again because the first one went so well, and i am very hopeful that we will be expanding on what we did during the first 4-some massage to include intercourse as well, but thats something we will sort out when the time arises.

 

cheers

Edited November 17, 2012 by pinton