Diesel_Power Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 (edited) So I have been having trouble with my girlfriend not responding to my phone calls/texts. She always says she will text/call me later, but she never does. I even have trouble with her not responding when I call and text her. It's not like she texts me back 2 hours later or anything... she just doesn't reply at all. It's like she feels like it's okay to ignore me. What can I say to her to get her to actually start communicating with me? I'm not saying all the time... it's just that a little bit of acknowledgement that I exist would be nice. I guess I'm just confused because we don't have any communication issues when we are with each other. Any suggestions? I'll be seeing her in the morning, so I want to talk to her about it then. I just don't know what to say to actually get her to call/text back. Thanks Edited September 24, 2012 by Diesel_Power
todreaminblue Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 So I have been having trouble with my girlfriend not responding to my phone calls/texts. She always says she will text/call me later, but she never does. I even have trouble with her not responding when I call and text her. It's not like she texts me back 2 hours later or anything... she just doesn't reply at all. It's like she feels like it's okay to ignore me. What can I say to her to get her to actually start communicating with me? I'm not saying all the time... it's just that a little bit of acknowledgement that I exist would be nice. I guess I'm just confused because we don't have any communication issues when we are with each other. Any suggestions? I'll be seeing her in the morning, so I want to talk to her about it then. I just don't know what to say to actually get her to call/text back. Thanks lines of communication are two ways you need to tell her how you feel and see if that changes things just explain how it makes you feel don't do it in an argumentative way just a sharing of your feelings and how you feel ...ask her to call you back if you text or reply text....that is your opening communication where it goes from there is up to you and her..i tend to take people who don't answer my calls in my stride..i have been accustomed to being ignored with friends and family, in a relationship however i can be vocal on my feelings that person is my best friend....and yes it does hurt to be ignored.....i find something else to concentrate on somethign that makes me happy and try and forget..............you don't have to do that.....talk to your girlfriend she is your partner equals best friend..deb
mortensorchid Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 Have to nip it in the bud ASAP, whether it's phone calls, texting or weekend plans. Whatever you do, DON'T let it blow up in your face. Years ago I was with this man who ended up breaking my heart. He accused me of not inviting him to parties and outings, I said I did every single time and he said he didn't want to go to any of them. I told him to keep a calendar, did he? Of course not. He broke it off the first time because he was bored, the next time because my lifestyle is too crazy for him. I moved onto someone else, he showed up at my doorstep crying because he thought I was angry with him. I could not win with him. Resolve it quickly, and best of luck with this.
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