Love_lies_in_wait Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 Okay. I'm just going to cut to the chase. Last year a girl and I were in the same math class. During the middle of the year, we both began staring at each other and occasionally smiling. I had many chances to ask her out, but instead just talked to her a little. I regret every moment I wasted. This year, I am more confident in who I am (I'm a lone wolf for the most part) and wouldn't hesitate if I had the chance again. Problem is this, I'm still attracted to her. In 4 days I plan to pull her aside at lunch and tell her exactly how I feel, including the regret of not talking to her more, and the fact that I'm still attracted to her. If the conversation goes well, I'm going to ask her for her number and eventually if she's want to hang out or go ice skating (we have a really nice new rink in the area) Does this sound like a good or bad idea? Please answer with a reason why if you comment! Much appreciated :J
Arabella Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 I think that sounds just plain awkward. Skip all the talk about your feelings and just tell her that you wish you'd asked sooner, but you'd like to hang out with her outside class. If she doesn't feel the same way, it will be far less uncomfortable for both of you. -A
Author Love_lies_in_wait Posted September 24, 2012 Author Posted September 24, 2012 Thanks haha. I come from a traditional, old fashioned family, so Often I over think things about etiquette and being polite verses straightforward. Hah. But really, thanks. You helped a lot
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