tornangel Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 So I am really kinda confused. This is gonna be short and sweet. Was off and on with my ex for 5 yrs. In the end we just had kinda once a wk thing. We have a kid togethr. So long story short I told him I am done with the once a wk hookup and want to date someone who will actually commit. He said he was sleeping with other girls the last 4 mo we were seeing eachother. So after I told him I am over it and that he treats all women like he treated me , (uses them ) he said that he doesnt like who he is but cant do anything about it. Its how the cards flopped for him and he is a shady snake that will only bring me pain. I said wow at least ur being honest and maybe u could have said something yrs ago. I guess I feel like an idiot. He is obviously immature cause he begged me to move in with him a month ago and I said no way. Just dont get why he drug it all out. I told him he should just be up front and tell girls he doesnt want a commitment. He seems okay that he is a player. I think he is pathtic for playing with peoples hearts like this. He seen a girl like 5 mo ago and she wouldnt have sex with him then when she did he blew her off. And he told me he ignored her on purpose. Ughhh ,, And she has kids. I dont get people like this. I am moving on after 5 yrs. I just dont get it , how do people get to this levrl of slefishness????
CptSaveAho Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 They are hurt, arent prepared for commitment and are cowards and want you to break up with them. It happens.
church9832 Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 Its a fact, Men love sex. Hell I love it too. but guys have a certain level of respect, some do it to forget pain and some do it just cause it feels good. What he did does not constitute as a Man, more like a horny teenage boy. Does he take responsibly over your child? Do you want your child to look up to a father like him? That should be some criteria to consider. Sex is awesome, but to me its a gift for all of humankind. Not to be waved around everywhere.
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