lostmylovetovegas Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 Hello first time poster here, so yes im a noob.. the story is about a long distance realtionship that i have been in for over 3 years. Here is the situation, in a nutshell. I met her last year in november got of on a good start, things went bad found out she was talking/seeing this military guy, i send pictures of her and i in an email (bad idea) it ends with them we get worse and worse, i stay for 3 months and i leave, she asks me to be with her after many many arguments i told her i would. Then last month exactly to the date, she changes her phone number after i book a flight, changes everything and this guy is on the sceen again. but they only email, she spends 2 weeks trying to find where i am at 2 weeks ago and finally finds me and says she misses and loves me. i cant let go that this guy has been involved in her life twice now and i dont know what to do.. i am not strong enough to walk away from her so i am setting myself up to be hurt.. she has cried (and i no what some woman are like) to me constantly and i felt that she really cared for a minute, but now after two weeks i have asked her to tell that guy you are with me, and to re add me on facebook ( ino facebook seems to not be important normally) but in long distance it does) i am really at a loss for words right now and i can honestly tell you that she thinks me spekaing to her son will proove that she loves me when in all honesty it dont help.. How would anyone cope in this situation alot of people will say "get up and move on" but has anyone been there where they just cant walk away.. ...its sad becouse we do love eachother i just dont think she belives ill be back there again... i booked a flight there but i dont know what her game is.. i no more infomation would be needed to make a better idea of what is going on so any questions just ask.. i really need help
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