melissa Posted July 2, 1998 Posted July 2, 1998 my boyfriend of 2 years and I have just started a relationship with a woman that I have been seeing so now it's three. They are not intimate whan I am not around and they say that the attraction is with me. I love them both. But I don't want to be left out? can this sort of relationship work? Should I be jelous? this is all new to me. Can my boyfriend and I ever spend an intimate night alne together, without hurting feelings? will we ever be the same? Is there books or a web site that I can read on this type of thing?
Ryan Posted July 5, 1998 Posted July 5, 1998 Bringing other people into a relationship like this is almost guaranteed to create a severe rift. It can and often does create feelings of jealousy and neglect. It will create more chaos in the relationship and ultimately end in a great amound of pain. I highly recommend not doing this and think about why either of you would consider this idea in the first place.
Terry Posted July 7, 1998 Posted July 7, 1998 Well as old Billy Joel would say- "It's always been a matter of TRUST!" It comes down to do you trust him. IF you don't and you live on the east coast-give me a shout-Terry Should I be jelous? this is all new to me. Can my boyfriend and I ever spend an intimate night alne together, without hurting feelings? will we ever be the same? Is there books or a web site that I can read on this type of thing?
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