Author joystickd Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 With women its a thin line between hate and being turned on. My friend who all the married women in my social circle overly flirt with and have crossed the line at times with would always talk about how arrogant he is and how he thinks hes better then everyone else but the moment he jokingly flirted with them they tried to take it to the next level with him So i dont know if his cockiness and attitude in a way turned them on a little or maybe its as simple as hes good looking and a women willl still be physically turned on no matter how much of an ass you are in general and if he wasnt attractive physically maybe hed be called a creep for how he acts Confident! You can do a lot if you are confident
El Brujo Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 The only thing my mother told me about girls when I was a teenager was to make my own decisions... I'll give my mother plenty of credit for one thing, she didn't put up with me going along with any of that peer pressure crap. But seriously, I think the core issue of this thread is that most women's brains are wired for formality, while most men's brains are wired for convenience. That's why women tend to get turned on by sh** like fancy ballgowns, chamber music, saying "madaaaaahhhm" and junk like that, while men tend to like dressing like comfortable slobs, belching, and farting. Convenience good. Formality bad.
PJKino Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Confident! You can do a lot if you are confident Fair enough but i think the fact hes good looking doesn hurt Ill be honest it kind of sours me on women seeing married women act this way around him who seemingly love their husbands and are treated very well by them Doesnt seem like it takes much for women to stray these days
ascendotum Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) Quality women do not respond to @$$hattish behavior. Period. If you ”catch” a woman by treating her like dirt, do not be surprised when she cheats, leaves, or embarrasses you in fundamental ways. Apparently, the men who adhere to this ”mother is wrong” philosophy have mothers who think more highly of their sons than the sons deserve. Grow up. Real men treat women with respect. If a woman is worth your time, she won't put up with that nonsense. If all you want is to catch some tail, then you are what is inherently wrong with the ”system.” There's more to life than living; you can't run on an empty heart. Arasae, I totally agree with you, when it comes to long term relationships. When it comes to picking up women / initial attraction I have seen @$$hattish behavior work many times. I knew good looking guys who really were not like that in real life, but used to ramp up the full of shyte, full of themselves, everyone else is a loser, yeah all right I'll **** you lets go attitude...for kicks..and it worked, and it worked on sexy young women who were lawyers, accountants, pharmacists, radiologists, real estate agents, marketing mgrs, etc. Maybe they had self esteem issues, who knows, they certainly didn't show it, and if they did it was of no concern to the guys, because they were only going to be with her for the night or a few weeks. One of these guys I stayed in contact with, and he has a gorgeous, devoted, very intelligent wife and a wonderful mother, who he dropped the persona for and treats really well. So yes real men treat women with respect, but they can also get away with being total tossers and jerks in the short term with many young women seeing it as masculine, confident, go-getter traits. I am certainly not advocating @$$hattish behavior as the way to go, but other guys do notice how many (not all) women respond to it, and its definitely not women with little prospects. Edited October 2, 2012 by ascendotum
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