mymission Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 Me and my ex were together for 18 months and we split up in February this year. He is the only person I've ever loved and my only proper relationship. I went through the usual horrible gut wrenching emotions that you go through, and it was even worse as he ended it when I still wanted to be in it. After months of pining I went travelling around Europe for a month this summer and had a bit of a revelation whilst I was over there. We were not meant to be and life is too short to be pining about the past. So for about 6 weeks after I got back I hardly thought of him. But then I heard through the grapevine that he'd split up with his rebound. All of a sudden things started to remind me of him again and I started to think about him more often. Its got worse and so many things remind me of him I can't get away from it. When the radio is on at work so many songs make me think of him and other things I see on the tele or when I hear about his favourite football club. I've started dating somebody else but I still think about him and it is a bit weird being couply with someone else. I know that we were meant for each other and its the best option but I loved him and I don't know why things keep reminding me of him. It has been a while since we broke up!! Any thoughts?
church9832 Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 imo, you shouldn't have gone in a relationship if you're not completely over him, Think of this Weigh the good things and the bad things, then consider if you'll end up the same way as before with your ex. Then think of the current person you're with, If you're still thinking of your ex that way, you'll end up hurting him. Then think about why he dumped you in the first place, there was a reason and if that reason would come back again anyway, why bother :/ but thats my opinion
Author mymission Posted September 24, 2012 Author Posted September 24, 2012 I think an issue is as well is that I'm not happy in my job and I'm in a bit of a rut so thats making me feel low as well. It was my birthday the other day and I was half expecting a happy birthday message as we were a big part of each others lives for a long time. But I didn't receive anything and it made me angry!
Author mymission Posted September 24, 2012 Author Posted September 24, 2012 ps. I was supposed to put that we were NOT meant for each other
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