bubbleskeeps023 Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 Hi. I have been dating a guy for 6 months now. He's 29 and I am 24. The thing is I really don't go out with other guys and we do see each other once a week. We also did the deed occasionally. We are like a couple whenever we are together. But I never met any of his family and friends, nor he is with mine. Last night, I go out with my friends and got a little tipsy. I send him an SMS asking what I am to him. He just answered I'm special. and then I asked him if it will be okay if I am to meet other guys. His answer took so long, about 30 minutes that made me feel a little bit crazy last night. His answer was that my question is so hard to answer since he's not in the right place to demand that for me. and then I told him that just answer my question with a yes or no. and then I did not receive any answer and he just said "sorry". Does this mean he did not want any serious relationship with me?
CptObvious Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 Bottom line is that he's a smart guy. He doesn't want to give you any weapons against him when he cuts you out of his life. When you're attention starved you won't have any access to his connections, and to put it bluntly, ya'll ain't got **** on him.
thatone Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 you have a friend with benefits, not a boyfriend.
bob the brave Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 sorry, we, of course, can't really answer that for you. Only he can. But, I am sorry to say it does appear he is not ready to get serious. 1
Author bubbleskeeps023 Posted September 23, 2012 Author Posted September 23, 2012 Thanks for all the replies. I appreciate it. Kinda tired of this option thing. I think I need to distant myself from him from now on. Thanks again.
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