Lucas Kris Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 So hello everyone, I'm a senior in high school and homecoming is on it's way, so I'm excited about that. I fancy a girl and she knows that I like her and I do believe she likes me back. So I decided that, since it's my senior year I should do something very cheesy and but I think it's kind of cute at the same time. I wrote a little song about it XD I will go into her class unannounced and sing it to the whole class. Like while I was writing it I looked what I was going to do up on YouTube and saw that a bunch of people have done what I want to do. But remember everything is not all tea and cakes now, or else this would not be a question. So I told my friends about it and they responded with much negativity about the situation. At first they where pretty calm with it saying things like "As your friends we think you shouldn't do this, you will look like a complete idiot trying this out" So yes of course I know I will look like an idiot doing this I mean I'm singing in front of a whole class to ask a girl to homecoming, but the thing it well, I don't mind if I look like a complete idiot it's not like people are going to hold that against me for doing something cheesy. But as we drop the subject I started to get doubts about it. Pretty much falling into peer pressure, so what are your thoughts on this? I would really like to do this but then again about none of my friends support me with this. Should I even care about that?
whichwayisup Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 Since you want to do it and you say you'll be okay with whatever reaction happens by the class, then do it. Though, what about her reaction..That is what counts. Put yourself in her shoes for a minute..would it embarress her? How would you feel if the situation was reversed? The idea is good..But, why not do it privately?
jobaba Posted September 23, 2012 Posted September 23, 2012 WOW! You sound like me when I was younger and about your age. I once brought flowers to a girl in college in front of all her roommates and she was so embarrassed and uncomfortable ... it was such a bad idea. I would definitely NOT do what you are planning. Here's why... 1) You are not assured that she likes you. If she doesn't, not only will you make a fool of yourself, your rejection will be 100% public. Bad, bad, bad. 2) Forget all the romantic myths about swaying a woman's interest with music, guitar, and impromptu proclamations of love. That stuff is to be done when you are ALREADY IN the relationship. None of that stuff, and ESPECIALLY the guitar and song and dance bit will make her feel attracted to you if she aint. 3) If she does like you, there is a chance that you could embarrass her so badly with your little shenanigans that she will reject you, ignore you for a while, and then when you see her again in a month, she's dating one of your best friends. Not that that has happened to me or anything... Oh wait, it has. Honestly, just ask her to go out with you and if she says yes, take her somewhere cheap and you don't even have to dress up. If a girl thinks your handsome, it's in the bag anyway. If she doesn't like you, there's almost nothing you can do...
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