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Hi all,

 

There's a man who lives down my road who caught my eye instantly, the second I saw him I was interested. There has always been a lot of eye contact and smiling between us.

 

Over the past couple of months whenever we see each other we chat and the more I talk to him the more I've found myself attracted to him. We have loads in common and have similar sense of humour.

 

There has been some gentle teasing between us and flirting. I have found him staring at me in the past as well and as soon as I've looked over he's looked away.

 

Trouble is I don't know how to proceed from here. I am worried that if I tell him that I am attracted to him and he blows me out I will see him regularly and die of embaressment every time I cast eyes on him. :o

 

If anyone has any pointers I'd be grateful.

 

Thanks

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Get his phone number, then let the air out of your tire, and call 'em for help. offer to repay with dinner.

 

Or... you could just ask him to accompany you to some local festival, jazz bar, movie, picnic, etc...

 

 

I like the picnic idea.

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Ohh I really like the tire idea, thanks :)

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Ohh I really like the tire idea, thanks :)

 

Or, instead of faking something, you could just be honest and open and ask him to take you out on a date.

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Hi all,

 

There's a man who lives down my road who caught my eye instantly, the second I saw him I was interested. There has always been a lot of eye contact and smiling between us.

 

Over the past couple of months whenever we see each other we chat and the more I talk to him the more I've found myself attracted to him. We have loads in common and have similar sense of humour.

 

There has been some gentle teasing between us and flirting. I have found him staring at me in the past as well and as soon as I've looked over he's looked away.

 

Trouble is I don't know how to proceed from here. I am worried that if I tell him that I am attracted to him and he blows me out I will see him regularly and die of embaressment every time I cast eyes on him. :o

 

If anyone has any pointers I'd be grateful.

 

Thanks

If he isn't the shy type then he would have already asked you out if he was interested.

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Fair points, I think I will leave it a few weeks and see what happens.

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