Kamila Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 Hi... For the ones that have love and lost, how do you get up after all the heartache ? I know the first cut runs the deepest, and the more cuts (...relationships...) you have endured, the more you learn from those experiences... But the numbness sets in. You are indifferent and have a hard time trusting again. What's the point in feeling all the butterflies and having them crushed again ? After 2 long term relationships and one unrequited love, I'm left with 'Bleh'. Sigh... 1
veggirl Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 I feel the exact same way as you, except I don't believe the first cut runs the deepest. It never gets easier. At least with my other break ups, I could justify it with TBH they were shi.tty relationships, this one is not like that it is a matter of circumstance he is moving across the country, so we broke up because he is "not ready" for the committment of me going with. but our R was so so so good. If it ends even when it is good, what's the point? Even the good ones don't last........ How many times can you start over? It makes me feel sick, so depressed and helpless. I don't want to feel anything for anyone, and I don't. I feel depressed about my situation but COMPLETELY numb towards other men. I tried to go out with someone else and it made me feel sick.
january2011 Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 You find joy in other things. Then when you're ready to love again, you take it slowly and open your heart. 1
xxsnowbunnyxx Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 If it ends even when it is good, what's the point? Even the good ones don't last........ How many times can you start over? It makes me feel sick, so depressed and helpless. I don't want to feel anything for anyone, and I don't. I feel depressed about my situation but COMPLETELY numb towards other men. I tried to go out with someone else and it made me feel sick. I'm in the same boat. I feel sick at the thought of another man touching me : / I'm loosing all hope in my future. I know my BU wasn't that long ago and I still have a lot of healing to do but I just can't seem to shake this uncomfortable feeling that this is the end of love for me. I'm not sure I can handle another heartbreak... The way technology is these days worries me too. It seems that it is harder and harder to keep a long term relationship with all the games and social media. People are meeting people all the time online. I know several people that's marriages ended over Facebook. Eventually people get bored and they start talking to someone else online...
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