socrushed Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 So there's this girl at my work that seems friendly, but never really talked to me and i never really talked to her. The reason is probably because i give off an anti social and depressed vibe, always looking down and never really talking to anyone. Well, yesterday I was forced to work next to her for the whole shift, just the two of us. I struck up a conversation, and i got her talking and smiling about her life, her jobs, her classes, everything! we totally bonded. i was making eye contact and smiling, and so was she! then i mentioned how i hate the job we work at, and she agreed. she said she's about to get a 2nd job, and if i'm interested she'll get me in too. I agreed, but... she said she left the information in her car. and instead of offering that i walk with her to her car to get the information, she said she'll give it to me next week... so that's some mixed signals there..... i guess she doesn't like me? or is she just shy?
Hawaii50 Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 it's a process, man... give it some time. maybe..
Author socrushed Posted September 22, 2012 Author Posted September 22, 2012 I think she was just being friendly. well how come she was making so much eye contact and smiling so much...
Shaun-Dro Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 So there's this girl at my work that seems friendly, but never really talked to me and i never really talked to her. The reason is probably because i give off an anti social and depressed vibe, always looking down and never really talking to anyone. Well, yesterday I was forced to work next to her for the whole shift, just the two of us. I struck up a conversation, and i got her talking and smiling about her life, her jobs, her classes, everything! we totally bonded. i was making eye contact and smiling, and so was she! then i mentioned how i hate the job we work at, and she agreed. she said she's about to get a 2nd job, and if i'm interested she'll get me in too. I agreed, but... she said she left the information in her car. and instead of offering that i walk with her to her car to get the information, she said she'll give it to me next week... so that's some mixed signals there..... i guess she doesn't like me? or is she just shy? She's a nice girl that wants to help you out. Take it for what it is and don't overthink this.
Matlock Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 well how come she was making so much eye contact and smiling so much... It's likely just her personality.
Author socrushed Posted September 22, 2012 Author Posted September 22, 2012 so you guys are saying i don't really have a chance with her... ? btw one time we made eye contact when we were across the room and she was talking to another guy, and she gave me a big smile... she never did that before we started talking. what about that?
CaptJay Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 so you guys are saying i don't really have a chance with her... ? btw one time we made eye contact when we were across the room and she was talking to another guy, and she gave me a big smile... she never did that before we started talking. what about that? She's probably a sweet and confident girl.
Author socrushed Posted September 22, 2012 Author Posted September 22, 2012 i guess i should mention that last night when i slept, i ended up dreaming a lot about her too.. she is the first pretty girl i've had a decent conversation with in a LONG time..
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