lilcrazy07 Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 well me and my boyfriend have just start going out. and when he asked me out i said yes and i was really happy. but then after a while i thought he should be dating someone who was prettier, thiner, and smarter. and i just felt that i wasn't good enough for him. that he deserves better than me. we've been friends for a long time before we started going together and we always had a good time together, but now i feel that when we go places together that he is embarrassed by me. i asked him and he said he wasn't he said he never would've asked me out if he was. but for some reason i think he could do better than me. before i went with him i felt very good about myself and i was really confident. PLEASE somebody tell me why i feel this way now.
Kat Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 I can only guess that you are trying to protect yourself. You are having so much fun in this relationship and that you are so comfortable that you have conviced yourself that it isn't real and that it will 'end anyway so why not end it yourself'. You are making it negative so that when it 'does end' you will be prepared. We all do it and I know so many relationships I ended because I felt exactly the same way (or I made THEM out to be the 'less desirable')
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