ParadeRain Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 (edited) When you've been heartbroken (for real, and for the first time) - And months later when you get to the point of being able to smile again and enjoy the days again... genuinely be attracted to new girls... realise that life is worth living without her after all... That dull ache still remains... you still miss her, it still hurts, but it's bearable/acceptable, you are genuinely able to enjoy your life again and be positive, but you've been scarred... terrified of letting it happen to you again, sometimes you might find yourself thinking that you want her back, and wallow in the after-pain of being heart broken... It's annoying.. the major pain has can, you can function again, you're feeling good again... but that dull ache still remains faintly in the background... That is the best way I can describe it, does that feeling ever go away? Edited September 22, 2012 by ParadeRain
yoman38 Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 yes the pain will eventually subside I promise, and it will take time. No man or woman's heart is made of iron. At this point I think you shouldn't be annoyed irritated or afraid of this lingering ache. As time progresses it will continue to fade until one day it won't even matter and you'll laugh about the situation. you'll look back and go seriously I spent all that time worrying about that, WTF was I think I should have went to Spain or something lol. Just be chill man relax take it easy.
Coyoteloco Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 i feel the same man :/ , 2 months went by, still cant get her out of my mind, but now im able to not think about her for maybe 1 hour. Sadness wear off, and the desire to have her back also wear off, but shes still in my mind most of the time. It sucks!
LostOne1 Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 personally I think when a person gets into a new relationship the pain goes away. That is WITH time also going along say like 6 months after and you meet someone. I think of my past relationships and they hurt a lot then, though not as much as my recent one. But now I don't even think about those relationships, they seem like they were bound to fail and all those ex's have moved on or gotten married etc.. I have no feelings for them at all now. My recent ex, yes only been a month and lots of pain. I suppose over time it will be the same thing.... just a memory that really had faded so much that it will have no real meaning anymore.
Recommended Posts