kellast Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 Hello, I just registered and could use some advice. I have been seeing this girl for almost two years and I would like for it to continue, but lately she has been distant. I mainly noticed this when she started university, but when I confronted her about it see said something along the lines of "you only noticed then"? Now when I try talking to her about it and what could be wrong, she says that I do not understand her, and will not because I am apparently "immature" to her. She stopped being physical in our relationship, but I only thought that was because she wanted some space, but when I asked about that she also said that she still loves me and wants to be in a relationship but is no longer physically attracted to me because I am "immature". When I asked her on what I am doing wrong and if she could help fix it, she responded with "I can't help you be a man". I had started college awhile ago as well and we have only been seeing less of each other. She used to be very kind and appreciative of the things I did for her, which made me want to do more for her, now she is colder and seeming distant and not quite as appreciative as before, as if only being polite because its expected from her. Now as for me being immature I am 19 and she is 18 so I know that we are both young, and I am not very experienced, I just don't know how much more she expects from me between school, talking to her over skype through the week, and small outings on the weekends.
veggirl Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 You should start dating other girls. At 18/19 she wants freedom and is in a new environment that is exciting. You can't change that or change her opinion. i would dump someone if they told me they were no longer attracted to me...I mean what do you think she is gonna do when meets someone she IS attracted to? she will cheat on you.
yoman38 Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 unfortunately these are all signs that she is no longer wanting to be with and is slowly emotionally detaching herself from you. I think the best thing you can do is distance yourself from her probably even dump her and look for more fun relationships. Also you're young so I don't suggest getting into a serious relationship right now anyways.
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