ThaWholigan Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Unless you're a fetishist, yes they have. Yes they have. (me too) No they haven't Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I love it when the men here stay how "lenient" or non superficial they are, and criticize women's appearance in the same breath The OP asked about women in their 30s. Women in their 40s are often attractive to men in their 40s and 50s. It is true that the pool of physically attractive people (women or men) gets smaller with each decade, but that's true for both sexes. I'm not sure what you mean. Women in their 40s are less attractive to the majority of men. I happen to find a lot of them attractive. I am not the majority of men. What there exactly set you off? Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 I'll expand. By the time they are 30, their vagi's are sagging. Nothing looks good when it is sagging. Yes they have. let me guess you have a hard time getting women? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 But by 30 most women have lost their looks. Long gone by that time. Heterosexual men were designed to be attracted to women, not just very young women. If you are not attracted to women over 30, I don't know how to help you with that. My partner doesn't have that problem. Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I don't think many women go around town with their vagina showing so that men can judge sagginess and age. But I don't live in the same part of the world as some posters. So perhaps that's got something to do with it. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I'm not sure what you mean. Women in their 40s are less attractive to the majority of men. I happen to find a lot of them attractive. I am not the majority of men. What there exactly set you off? I do see SOME women in their 40s that I think are attractive. But I am VERY lenient, FAR from the normal discriminatory male, and pretty old myself. You didn't say you find a lot attractive. You said SOME, which sounded to me like not many. And I think you are wrong about your male peers over 40. Most people's range of "attractive" moves up in age as they move up in age. I don't think that most men in their 40s find women in their 40s unattractive. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I'll expand. By the time they are 30, their vagi's are sagging. Nothing looks good when it is sagging. Yes they have. I don't know what kind of 30 year olds you know . But I've met a lot of hot women in their 30s and 40s, and nothing sags about half of them. They know how to take care of themselves. No they haven't 2 Link to post Share on other sites
GirlontheLam Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 But by 30 most women have lost their looks. Long gone by that time. I should crawl into a tunnel from now on! There is no way I can be attractive in my mid 30s. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 You didn't say you find a lot attractive. You said SOME, which sounded to me like not many. And I think you are wrong about your male peers over 40. Most people's range of "attractive" moves up in age as they move up in age. I don't think that most men in their 40s find women in their 40s unattractive. Sure. Men in their 40s find women in their 40s attractive. But you have to understand the context of the OP. Anytime a guy asks this question, what he is really saying is... "I'm tired of chasing women and trying to impress and charm them, and it not working out. Will there ever be an age where I don't have to compete with a dozen other d@uchebags for any halfway decent looking female? When will it even out? Women have tons of options, and I have none." And the answer is IMO ... once most women hit their 40s, they will still be attractive, but no longer generate the sexual lust that makes dozens of guys chase after them. Perhaps in my 40s, I will meet a woman who I think is cool and beautiful but I won't have to compete with every Tom, Dick, and Harry for her because the pool of singles is smaller and she no longer generates the sexual lust to have dozens of guys wanting her at the same time. I'm almost there anyway... Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I have had WAY more men chasing after me in my 40s than the previous two decades, so there. Me too! Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Sure. Men in their 40s find women in their 40s attractive. But you have to understand the context of the OP. Anytime a guy asks this question, what he is really saying is... "I'm tired of chasing women and trying to impress and charm them, and it not working out. Will there ever be an age where I don't have to compete with a dozen other d@uchebags for any halfway decent looking female? When will it even out? Women have tons of options, and I have none." And the answer is IMO ... once most women hit their 40s, they will still be attractive, but no longer generate the sexual lust that makes dozens of guys chase after them. Perhaps in my 40s, I will meet a woman who I think is cool and beautiful but I won't have to compete with every Tom, Dick, and Harry for her because the pool of singles is smaller and she no longer generates the sexual lust to have dozens of guys wanting her at the same time. I'm almost there anyway... The OP is "Miss Jones" or something like that. I assumed the OP was a woman. Would you answer differently if it is a woman asking? If she is wondering if men her age will still find her attractive in her 30s, my answer is yes. In her 40s, my answer is still yes. She may not be overwhelmed with catcalls on the street, or comments from every guy she sees, but that's no loss! Men her age, looking for a relationship, will still find women her age attractive. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Most men in their 40s make due because they can't afford girls in their 20s Don't kid yourself. You assume that they're all creepy old c*nts like you . Ahh well, more 30 year olds for me 5 Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I have had WAY more men chasing after me in my 40s than the previous two decades, so there. The OP is "Miss Jones" or something like that. I assumed the OP was a woman. Would you answer differently if it is a woman asking? If she is wondering if men her age will still find her attractive in her 30s, my answer is yes. In her 40s, my answer is still yes. She may not be overwhelmed with catcalls on the street, or comments from every guy she sees, but that's no loss! Men her age, looking for a relationship, will still find women her age attractive. Me too! Yea. That's all a possibility too. I can only speak of people up to my own age, and I am in my 30s (and obviously lived through my teens and 20s). It's imminently possible that women will have many men chasing after them until through their 40s and 50s and continue to be able to pick and choose. Great! So .. then women will always have many guys chasing after them, and the guys who have nobody chasing them will always be the ones that lose out until the day they die. Good to know!! Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 You assume that they're all creepy old c*nts like you . Ahh well, more 30 year olds for me You're allowed to write cunt unedited on LS. In fact, there are times I think use of the word should be obligatory...and this thread presents a few examples of such times. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 You're allowed to write cunt unedited on LS. In fact, there are times I think use of the word should be obligatory...and this thread presents a few examples of such times. I recall the number of times I used the word had eventually caused offense among a couple of posters, so I purposefully muted it a little. But yes, the word is very appropriate in this case 1 Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I like women of all hotness. Just when they are 30 they have lost what makes them valuable. Not all, but most and the rest are on their way. As a 29 yr old, I am curious about this. Shall I expect the immediate change at midnight on my 30th birthday? Will I wake up looking different? Or will it happen right when I actually turn 30 (around 10:30am), gosh how exciting, will there be like a loud pop or a burst or something as I change? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Yea. That's all a possibility too. I can only speak of people up to my own age, and I am in my 30s (and obviously lived through my teens and 20s). It's imminently possible that women will have many men chasing after them until through their 40s and 50s and continue to be able to pick and choose. Great! So .. then women will always have many guys chasing after them, and the guys who have nobody chasing them will always be the ones that lose out until the day they die. Good to know!! "Every dog has his day" Link to post Share on other sites
pandagirl Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I'm 34. I don't lie to myself. Within the last year, I've noticed that I have started to look "older" for the first time in my life. I'm vain enough to let it bother me! That being said, I know women in their 30s and 40s who have very active dating lives. They don't look like 21-year-olds, but they are all in good shape and dress well. I think most people people prefer to date someone within their age range. Guys my age shudder at the thought of dating someone in their early 20s -- they think it's gross and that (no offense to younger people) most younger girls are pretty annoying. That being said, you still want those people in your age range to be above average in looks. That's just natural. When I was 31, I was dating someone who was 27. Now I'm 34, and my boyfriend is 29. I met both on a dating site, and they actively pursued me, knowing well what my age was. I didn't plan it that way, nor do I have a thing for younger men. Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 As a 29 yr old, I am curious about this. Shall I expect the immediate change at midnight on my 30th birthday? Will I wake up looking different? Or will it happen right when I actually turn 30 (around 10:30am), gosh how exciting, will there be like a loud pop or a burst or something as I change? Yup, sorry veggirl. We women on the other side keep it a secret just so that we can swell our numbers. Otherwise, you'll be heading to the nearest bridge on your 30th birthday. It's for your own good, dear. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 To echo what many of the women here have responded. Not only do more men chase me now (in my mid-30s) than throughout my twenties, they do so with more intent and are generally really great guys. I find the whole thing way easier and enjoyable now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I guess that I better look into divorcing my wife in 5 years when I will all of a sudden no longer be attracted to her. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 "Every dog has his day" As I read this thread, I realize that as a man in my 30s, I am actually losing what little attractiveness I have myself. And if I haven't been able to physically attract any women up to this point, being fit and having all my hair, I shudder to think of how women will view me in 5 to 10 years from now when my metabolism finally gets the best of me and my hair starts thinning. And top of that, humans SHRINK as they get older. So, not only am I short, but I'll be getting shorter in the years to come. All good stuff... Well, the rest of you enjoy being chased. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Re: signs of aging. Of course I look older. I'm human. Humans age. Am I less attractive as a result? I'd say all signs point to: no, looking older does not make me less attractive. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 The OP is "Miss Jones" or something like that. I assumed the OP was a woman. Would you answer differently if it is a woman asking? If it was a woman asking then I assume she means... "Will I still have guys chasing after me and dating options in my 30s like I do now?" To which the answer is yes. Apparently in your 40s and 50s too. Sit back and enjoy the ride and laugh at those less fortunate as you drive by. Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 As has often been discussed on LS, being attractive, and being wanted by the opposite sex, is not all about being physically 'hot' with a perfect body. A lot of it has to do with confidence and personality. Both men and women generally develop both their confidence and their personality as they get older - and that usually makes them even more attractive than they were before the wrinkles started to show. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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