Shunned by a college student

[zanesfan]

Im 29, he is probably 22. We've known each other for 2 years now. We talked heavily in the beginning. I always felt like he liked me and flirted with me but he never came forward with trying to pursue me on any level. He and I started talking sexual at one point (initiated by me) and he asked if I had a bf and I said yeah (which was close to ending) and I think he got discouraged. I told him I was curious about him but I knew I should be respectful of his relationship.

 

Now a whole year has passed and we start talking again. Tonight Im really sexually frustrated and who better to give me what I need: him. I text him and asked if his gf was still in the picture and she is. I still told him I was curious but he didnt bite again. He even told me how good I looked since losing 10 lbs over the summer two weeks ago and even make a slight sexual preference.

 

Is he just not attracted to me in this way? Is he really that in love? Is he scared/intimated? I feel rejected. Im not ugly nor am I fat. Whats the deal?

[yongyong]

Maybe he respects his GF or You just didn't pass his boner test.

[ascendotum]

Maybe he respects his GF or You just didn't pass his boner test.

 

Respecting your GF, that's a good thing I thought.

There is a very good chance he thinks you are a bit of alright. the trouble is when he was available and put the feelers out, you weren't available. Now you are single and sussing him out for something more, he is unavailable.

I think you need to find other prospects. When I guy ignores you because he already is in a relationship it does not mean he finds you unattractive, at all. Seriously, would you be fine with a bf of yours two timing you with another woman that he had known previously, just because she was now ready for him and he didn't want to disappoint her or miss the opportunity to have sex with her?

[joystickd]

I hear shun and i think of this

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