dumber for the other girl

[crumble12]

hey my now ex dumbed me on Sunday saying that he wasn't happy and that he just think we have grow apart after being together for 4 year i asked him to try and work it out and he wouldn't so u pushed him to tell me n he said that he had let some one else in to his hart and that he wants her more then me now he has pulled apart everything 4 years down hill and gone he stayed at her house while i was n holiday im finding it hard no talking to him and miss everything about it what should i do

[MonsterMash]

hey my now ex dumbed me on Sunday saying that he wasn't happy and that he just think we have grow apart after being together for 4 year i asked him to try and work it out and he wouldn't so u pushed him to tell me n he said that he had let some one else in to his hart and that he wants her more then me now he has pulled apart everything 4 years down hill and gone he stayed at her house while i was n holiday im finding it hard no talking to him and miss everything about it what should i do

 

Forget about him. Focus on school. There's these new inventions called periods and commas that you should research.

[Coyoteloco]

go on no contact, not talking to him, unfriend on facebook, dont see pictures of both of u together, put all the things he gave u in a box and hide it in the closet, start a new hobby like the gym or a sport, and just do that for some time till u start feeling better, i got dumped 2 months ago, im feeling better now every once in a while flirt with some1 so u get a bit of and ego boost even if its just with ur eyes ;P ermmm.. . and well its pretty hard to move on, i think i couldnt do it yet, and i still think of her, but now its not 24/7 i can go like 1 hour or 2 without her in my head also playing computer games , or making/playing music, lets u not think about them for a while

[LostOne1]

go on no contact, not talking to him, unfriend on facebook, dont see pictures of both of u together, put all the things he gave u in a box and hide it in the closet, start a new hobby like the gym or a sport, and just do that for some time till u start feeling better, i got dumped 2 months ago, im feeling better now every once in a while flirt with some1 so u get a bit of and ego boost even if its just with ur eyes ;P ermmm.. . and well its pretty hard to move on, i think i couldnt do it yet, and i still think of her, but now its not 24/7 i can go like 1 hour or 2 without her in my head also playing computer games , or making/playing music, lets u not think about them for a while

all those things help quite a bit.

 

But I always found it didn't heal me at all, just distracted me away from what was bugging me. Then when I got free time to think.. it all came back.

 

Makes me wonder how dumpers do it? I mean don't they ever feel guilt or think about it? I can see they have told themselves they made a good choice.. but still.