vaxathrax Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 I'm really not sure if this should be in long distance or not, but its so close to the beginning of the relationship that the question probably pertains more to dating. Brief history - Met a girl in a state we both used to live in, hung out once - absolutely everything in common, both agree that we are a great match. She really couldnt handle it because we both were going to be moving and she needed to focus on the move and her mom even though she admitted she could see us getting very close and intimate. Fast forward 6 months, I sent a text just to check in and see how she was doing. That turned into a couple of great phone conversations and a visit out to where I live. During the visit we both had a great time and were even bouncing around ideas of me trying to move closer/to the town where she lives now - a scenario I'm totally open to. Got texts when she landed off the plane, the morning after seeing how I was etc. I tried to give her a ring two days ago and yesterday to plan my visit out there and haven't heard back.... two days since first contact. a) in my head if this long distance thing is going to work until I can move (3-8 months?) the contact/response time has to be better b) the last time I didnt hear from her for a few days I ended up getting an email about how the timing was bad and she didn't know what to say. I'm worried that this is going to be the case again which would really crush me. Question - I left a message for her to call me back, and if she were a normal girl I didn't care about yet I would be fine going no contact since the ball is in her court... but at least I feel that theres way more here and if we are talking about trying to make this work... in any case she should have gotten back by now... I'd like to send a text saying something like 'Hope you are ok... havent heard back from you and the last time that happened I got a pretty ****ty email.' As far as the content, I'd be fine with sending that so not asking advice on that, but just concerned over how to deal with the delay in contact so soon after her visit. Thanks all.
thatone Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 what's the other guy's name that she's after?
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