paperboy48 Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 If a guy is at a bar alone...is it creepy for a girl? In other words, is a girl going to be more comfortable talking with a guy at a bar if he is with a friend?
thatone Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 what gave you this idea? furthermore everything you think you know or have read about what women do or don't like or will and won't do is BS. every one of them will do every thing they said they wouldn't if they're attracted to the guy in question.
Necromancer Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 If he's alone and Attractive= Oww that's so heroic move by a bold man. Unattractive= lol, what a loser hanging out alone, doesn't he have friends?. 2
Mrlonelyone Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 What the above have said. It all comes down to attraction. Men and women both will do things with people they would never consider if they find that person attractive. They will at least fool around or have a one night stand based on that.
Author paperboy48 Posted September 21, 2012 Author Posted September 21, 2012 If he's alone and Attractive= Oww that's so heroic move by a bold man. Unattractive= lol, what a loser hanging out alone, doesn't he have friends?. Well I think I am attractive and I've been told the same from others as well, so...
CaptJay Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 If a guy is at a bar alone...is it creepy for a girl? In other words, is a girl going to be more comfortable talking with a guy at a bar if he is with a friend? Not if you buy 'em all a round! cj
oaks Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Well I think I am attractive and I've been told the same from others as well, so... ...get out there. It's friday!
yongyong Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 It all depends on How You Carry Yourself. I go out by myself now. (don't have to give a ride, can bounce anytime I want, can choose the place I want, don't have to get embarrassed when my friend starts talking to fat chick etc) It's all up to me to have a good time or not. I don't have to blame my friend ruining my game and acting obnoxious. It takes a lot of confidence to go out by yourself. If you approach her the right way, it doesn't matter if you are by yourself. The thing is Social Proof is important in bars and clubs. She will be more intrigued if she sees you hanging out with good looking guys and girls. What you don't want to do is sitting by yourself for a while like a creep or talking to ugly and fat chicks just to have a conversation. Those things will bring your value down when you approach them. I constantly look for the target to strike up the conversation. If I can't find anyone to talk to, I move around by going to restroom, getting drinks, smoking outside. One night, I ran into the right group and brought three blondes to my place. Did they even ask if I was by myself? no
Oxy Moronovich Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 Do you not realize many bars/clubs have "Ladies Night" because women are too broke to afford their own drinks? That's why you have so many bars stuffed full with airheaded broads who expect lame, random dudes to buy them drinks.
Wesker Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 To be honest, I always found it annoying as hell when I'm out with my buddies, and some stranger knob just comes up, and starts talking about something we're not even taking about. A few mins later, I see him just doing laps around the bar. Can't imagine a woman finding that too intriguing either.
skydiveaddict Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 If a guy is at a bar alone...is it creepy for a girl? In other words, is a girl going to be more comfortable talking with a guy at a bar if he is with a friend? Never go to a bar alone. The only exception would be an airport bar, if you're waiting for a flight.
CptObvious Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 Well I think I am attractive and I've been told the same from others as well, so... We'll be the judge of that! Post pics pls no homo
runner Posted September 22, 2012 Posted September 22, 2012 i go out to bars alone quite frequently; it's just something i do to either clear my head or brainstorm brilliant solutions, with a drink. sometimes. more often than not, people strike random conversations with me- both men and women. i usually don't mind as long as they're generally polite and not acting like drunken idiots. on the other hand, i'm rarely approached when engaged in a group.
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