Diesel_Power Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 My girlfriend has been making me feel back doored, so to speak. I don't feel like I am trying to be clingy... I just want to spend some time with her, which I don't think is a whole lot to ask since we are in a relationship. I ask her if she can hang out or go to lunch, and her answer is always I don't know yet and then in the end, we don't hang out. I have tried asking her spur of the moment to do things and I've tried asking her a week in advance, but she can never seem to find time to fit me into her schedule. I ask her if she still wants to be my girlfriend, and her answer is always yes. She says she still has feelings for me whenever I ask. What can I say to get her to spend time with me? How can I talk to her about it? Thanks
kassy Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Honestly, I'd try again say something like 'what's your schedule looking like for next week? It'd be great to see you and do something fun' if she can't fit you in at all in a week, and you've been trying this for a while already then I'd just break up and move on to someone who actually wants to see you!! Actions speak louder than words! 1
todreaminblue Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 My girlfriend has been making me feel back doored, so to speak. I don't feel like I am trying to be clingy... I just want to spend some time with her, which I don't think is a whole lot to ask since we are in a relationship. I ask her if she can hang out or go to lunch, and her answer is always I don't know yet and then in the end, we don't hang out. I have tried asking her spur of the moment to do things and I've tried asking her a week in advance, but she can never seem to find time to fit me into her schedule. I ask her if she still wants to be my girlfriend, and her answer is always yes. She says she still has feelings for me whenever I ask. What can I say to get her to spend time with me? How can I talk to her about it? Thanks why dont you end up hanging out? how many times do you see your girlfriend ? how many times do you want to see your girlfriend? Your girlfriend has to put you up there as vip....meaning you take first spot if your relationship is important to her if you dont get too see each other much it needs to become a vip state she has to make time for you no matter how busy she is or your relationship will fail....sometimes in the past i have spread myself thin in a relationship trying to help others that was to my relationships detriment.........but everything happens for a reason......it was probably good for the relationship i was in to have ended but i do know that you have to invest time as well as effort relationship 101.....deb
CptObvious Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Thread title made me laugh so ****ing hard 1
LittlePrince Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 My girlfriend has been making me feel back doored, so to speak. I don't feel like I am trying to be clingy... I just want to spend some time with her, which I don't think is a whole lot to ask since we are in a relationship. I ask her if she can hang out or go to lunch, and her answer is always I don't know yet and then in the end, we don't hang out. I have tried asking her spur of the moment to do things and I've tried asking her a week in advance, but she can never seem to find time to fit me into her schedule. I ask her if she still wants to be my girlfriend, and her answer is always yes. She says she still has feelings for me whenever I ask. What can I say to get her to spend time with me? How can I talk to her about it? Thanks She's not the right person for you. You want more involvement with your SO and she wants very little. This won't change. You need to find a girl who wants as much intimacy as you. 1
Pyro Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Thread title made me laugh so ****ing hard I thought judging by the title that this belonged in the sex category here. 1
yongyong Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Why do you wait for her like a dog waiting till the owner arrives home? spend time with other people especially females. you might click with one female and want to ditch her for a new girl. 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 She's not into it Diesel...women don't say "I don't know yet" to a guy they're really into unless they actually have some concrete plans and even then... The only thing you can do as far as the "relationship" goes is communicate with her so that you can find out how she feels for you and this relationship in more detail than what's you're getting....just a general and vague yes...but that's only for your piece of mind so you can walk away, if she is honest that is! which I think there's a good chance she will be unlike with men. If I were in your shoes however and my experience I'd just walk away, I don't think it's honestly going to be that much of a tragedy and find a girl who really likes you more than just a little more than a casual friend.
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