spiderowl Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Hi guys, if you go on a date and you get on well and want to see him/her again, how would you try to make sure the date ended? I know some guys are going to say "in bed" but seriously, what would you see as a good way to end a date when you really liked him or her?
soccerrprp Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Hi guys, if you go on a date and you get on well and want to see him/her again, how would you try to make sure the date ended? I know some guys are going to say "in bed" but seriously, what would you see as a good way to end a date when you really liked him or her? Preferably with a nice, close hug, quick or passionate kiss, and "thank you, had a very nice time. i hope i see you again."
todreaminblue Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Hi guys, if you go on a date and you get on well and want to see him/her again, how would you try to make sure the date ended? I know some guys are going to say "in bed" but seriously, what would you see as a good way to end a date when you really liked him or her? the hugest smile and lets do this again soon......and a hug...hugs are nice.....lol.... a passionate kiss would be....awkward.....its actually not something you should leave to the end of the date or plan in advance...impulsive kisses right in the middle of the dates smile are always good....better when there are no expectations a delishus little surprise and it happens out of the blue....much more passionate and romantic that way....it will happen...end then you progress to kissing at the end of dates....if you want to...impulse kissing stealing smiles that sort of thing i am a thief of th enicest kind....lol:cool:...deb
LittlePrince Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Hi guys, if you go on a date and you get on well and want to see him/her again, how would you try to make sure the date ended? I know some guys are going to say "in bed" but seriously, what would you see as a good way to end a date when you really liked him or her? If the date was so good then it would end naturally in sex. If it doesn't then the date to the woman was only at best mediocre and she could get that anywhere.
oaks Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Hi guys, if you go on a date and you get on well and want to see him/her again, how would you try to make sure the date ended? I know some guys are going to say "in bed" but seriously, what would you see as a good way to end a date when you really liked him or her? Do you mean a good first date? Before the end, rather than waiting until the end, I might suggest that I'm having a good time and try to arrange a specific second date rather than just a vague "we should do this again". Then, at the end (and perhaps sooner) there's no excuse for not kissing. Don't forget to grab her butt. Girls love that.
Author spiderowl Posted September 21, 2012 Author Posted September 21, 2012 Sounds good to me to say you're having a good time and arrange a second date, but a first date ending in sex? You have a strange definition of date. Grabbing a girl's butt on a first date would be intrusive and insulting. I am beginning to realise that modern guys have no clue how to respect women and are imbued with an over-sexualised culture. If you treat women as sex objects from the start like that, they are likely to reject you - and then you'll no doubt wonder why. I despair really
oaks Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Grabbing a girl's butt on a first date would be intrusive and insulting. I used a smiley that I thought might suggest that I wasn't being entirely serious. Sorry for the confusion. But, on a serious note, I'll only agree that it might be intrusive and insulting... because not everybody is the same and it might depend what has happened earlier in the date. There was a thread recently where 'moving too fast' was discussed... perhaps that was even the thread title. There were different views, of course. 1
oaks Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 There was a thread recently where 'moving too fast' was discussed... perhaps that was even the thread title. There were different views, of course. This one: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/345099-men-who-move-too-fast
curlygirl40 Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Don't forget to grab her butt. Girls love that. Lol. Nice. I know you're kidding but it made me think of the Jenna Marbles Youtube video 'things boys don't understand' "Unless I just scored a touchdown for our flag football team, don't slap my a$$. Please" I love that girl. She kills me. Not for the easily offended. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 If the date was so good then it would end naturally in sex. If it doesn't then the date to the woman was only at best mediocre and she could get that anywhere. I wonder why you think that? I never, ever would have had sex with a guy on the first date. Not my thing. Too shy and cautious for that. Yet … quite a few of my first dates ended up in relationships. OP - if you really liked your date, just make sure you let him know it and try your best to have a real connecting moment before you part - with good eye contact and a sincere expression about what a good time you had and how you are really looking forward to another. 1
KathyM Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 He'd drive me home, tell me he really liked spending time with me, and ask me if he could call me tomorrow. Then he'd give me a nice long kiss and hug in the car and either walk me to my door or wait for me to get into the house safely. 4
CaptJay Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Hi guys, if you go on a date and you get on well and want to see him/her again, how would you try to make sure the date ended? I know some guys are going to say "in bed" but seriously, what would you see as a good way to end a date when you really liked him or her? After being a consummate gentleman, a nice hug with - perhaps - a kiss on the cheek. Not a gentleman = no kiss on cheek. cj
LittlePrince Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 I wonder why you think that? I never, ever would have had sex with a guy on the first date. Not my thing. Too shy and cautious for that. Yet … quite a few of my first dates ended up in relationships. OP - if you really liked your date, just make sure you let him know it and try your best to have a real connecting moment before you part - with good eye contact and a sincere expression about what a good time you had and how you are really looking forward to another. Women many times settle for mediocre in their relationships.
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 A hug and then say I hope we can do it again soon. Then tell then to call or text when they get home, so you know they made it safely. My ex texted me like immediately after we left our first date to tell me how much he enjoyed it and couldn't wait to see me again )))))) it was cute times a million. 2
Author spiderowl Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 I used a smiley that I thought might suggest that I wasn't being entirely serious. Sorry for the confusion. But, on a serious note, I'll only agree that it might be intrusive and insulting... because not everybody is the same and it might depend what has happened earlier in the date. There was a thread recently where 'moving too fast' was discussed... perhaps that was even the thread title. There were different views, of course. Ah, I see, that's a relief. I didn't know how tongue-in-cheek it was (excuse the pun).
Author spiderowl Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 A hug and then say I hope we can do it again soon. Then tell then to call or text when they get home, so you know they made it safely. My ex texted me like immediately after we left our first date to tell me how much he enjoyed it and couldn't wait to see me again )))))) it was cute times a million. Yes, I had an ex who contacted me straight after the date to ask how I thought it went. He seemed keen and wanted to keep contact. I thought it was lovely. If a girl does seem interested, guys, get in touch with her quickly. Leaving it for ages makes you seem nondescript and uninterested. 1
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