OnceInLove92 Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Alright, so my ex and I, before we broke up, had almost been dating for seven years. A month ago, she left me for another guy (my [ex] best friend, to be specific). She told me that she lost her love for me, and that I'm not the one, and yada yada. So I told her to **** off, and not contact me so I can heal. Her and the other guy seem obsessed with eachother. I would check almost all of her social networking sights, and see alot of pictures of them together. Then I decided that it was just hurting me, so I blocked her from everything. A month goes by, and she calls me out of the blue. I pick up, and she seems like shes crying. She asks me if I have been involved with another girl, harassing my ex. I told her no, I wasn't, and gave her some advice that I've given her in the past. We hung up, and I texted her "Are you gonna be alright?" She told me "Yeah, now that I've talked to you. Thanks for picking up." Now we text here and there, and NOTHING is about her current boyfriend. We actually talked about our past sex life. But then she asks, "So why have you decided to talk to me now?" I told her "I've given it time. But dont get me wrong, this doesn't mean we're 'friends'. It just means that I'm fine and I'm moving on." Then she told me "GOOD! I'm sorry I wasn't the one. If it makes you feel better, we wouldn't be able to have children. I think I'm allergic to your sperm." We text here and there, but I try to keep it low. What do you guys suggest? What do you think she's intending to do? Do you think that she's really just trying to be friends with me? Rid her guilt? What should I do from here?
Mike_d Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 well.... how about you start - what do *you* think you should be doing?
love does not exist Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 I'd ignore her. I have no trust in any female. What if she gets your hopes up and she screws you over again?
Author OnceInLove92 Posted September 21, 2012 Author Posted September 21, 2012 I'd ignore her. I have no trust in any female. What if she gets your hopes up and she screws you over again? Yeah, that's the only ****ty part. We were together for 7 years. I doubt she doesn't still have feelings for me. I'm just trying to analyze the situation at heart.
love does not exist Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Yeah, that's the only ****ty part. We were together for 7 years. I doubt she doesn't still have feelings for me. I'm just trying to analyze the situation at heart. Yea, I wouldn't put to much stock in how long it was. I just got dealt the worst way to end a relationship after 8 years. You know what you have to do bro.
Frank13 Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 But then she asks, "So why have you decided to talk to me now?" I told her "I've given it time. But dont get me wrong, this doesn't mean we're 'friends'. It just means that I'm fine and I'm moving on." Then she told me "GOOD! I'm sorry I wasn't the one. If it makes you feel better, we wouldn't be able to have children. I think I'm allergic to your sperm." What do you guys suggest? What do you think she's intending to do? Do you think that she's really just trying to be friends with me? Rid her guilt? What should I do from here? Wow did you fall for this big time. You handed her guilt relief on a silver platter. Then she asks why you talk to her and you say you are fine with her leaving you for another guy and you will even talk to her (doormat). Then when she is so happy because you relieved her guilt, she not only gives you one, but two parting shots telling you "I'm sorry I wasn't the one" as if you left her for someone else, and then tells you she is allergic to your sperm? Are you for real? From here you should go NC. 1
love does not exist Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 Wow did you fall for this big time. You handed her guilt relief on a silver platter. Then she asks why you talk to her and you say you are fine with her leaving you for another guy and you will even talk to her (doormat). Then when she is so happy because you relieved her guilt, she not only gives you one, but two parting shots telling you "I'm sorry I wasn't the one" as if you left her for someone else, and then tells you she is allergic to your sperm? Are you for real? From here you should go NC. Ouch!!!!!!!!!
love does not exist Posted September 21, 2012 Posted September 21, 2012 I'm guilty of a lot of these mistakes too. I'm learning for this forum though.
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