piazzolla9 Posted September 20, 2012 Posted September 20, 2012 i've been dating my BF for a year, n we r so good together, i know he really care about me, and i know from the very beginning he has some health condition, that cause a mood swings, anxiety, insomnia. but for a year i always be there for him, he cheated once, he confess to me tho, so i can finally forgive him, and everything is ok again, but i become kinda insecure, but these few weeks i kinda feel he getting far away from me, but in those weeks when he drunk, he still sing a sad love song for me, i know he really has that feeling for me, but recently he is growing more and more distant, he dont really reply my message, until like 12 hr or more after i texted him a lot, this morning he text me, he say he thinks its better for us to be just friends, less stress for us, coz his mind is not stable, then i said he can't just make that decision, he tell me i shouldnt drag myself into this, n i deserve better, n he tell me i did nothing wrong, then i tell him i couldn't let him get thru this alone coz im a fighter too, then he ask me to give him time to consider.. im really worried about him, he told me to focus on work n family and not to worry about him, but i can't i know something went wrong with his mood, n he is very lonely right now, but he shuts me out, all i can do is ask his brother in secret to call n chit chat with him more, i tell his brother not to say anything about my request..
flitzanu Posted September 20, 2012 Posted September 20, 2012 the thing wrong with his mood is that he doesn't want the relationship.
Author piazzolla9 Posted September 21, 2012 Author Posted September 21, 2012 the thing wrong with his mood is that he doesn't want the relationship. his mood swings is not always bad mood like pushing me away, sometimes he really need me, want me to stay.. he say his mind is not stable, and he dont want to see me suffer
Author piazzolla9 Posted September 21, 2012 Author Posted September 21, 2012 maybe there's still hope for me, maybe i should wait, coz i care deeply about him, i know he is in some kind of problem, i still text him to ask about how he been doin, but more than that he kinda shut me out..
flitzanu Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 maybe there's still hope for me, maybe i should wait, coz i care deeply about him, i know he is in some kind of problem, i still text him to ask about how he been doin, but more than that he kinda shut me out.. yes, he "kinda shut you out" because he kinda doesn't want to be with you. if he did, wouldn't he be showing you he wants to be with you?
geegirl Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 he told me to focus on work n family and not to worry about him, but i can't He's telling you to step away in a gentle way. When someone tells you what you don't want to hear, LISTEN. It does not matter what you feel. What matters is what he is saying. He is shutting you out for a reason. People do that when they want to separate themselves from you.
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