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Also of course you are not scared about it because it doesn't say that your gender is ending.

 

I could find a lot of literature that is aimed at trashing and subjugating women. Check most of the PUA and MRA sites. Disgusting. But I'm not taking it personally.

 

Carrie Bradshaw did not "ruin the city." That's just lame. Rudy did it when he turned Times Square into a theme park. But this is off topic.

 

Do you think people in LA are crying because the character of Hank Moody from "Californication" is skewing peoples' perception of their fellows? Are women whining on LoveShack about that fictional character like you guys love to about poor Carry Bradshaw?

 

Please, dude. I'm sure you have some real life stuff you should be dealing with rather than aligning yourself yet again with complete idiots.

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Yes and women rightfully challenge things like that. Why then am I wrong for challenging something that says my gender is over?

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Underneath every misogynistic man is a self-entitled little monster. So no, women aren't responsible for nurturing these little turds.

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Underneath every misogynistic man is a self-entitled little monster. So no, women aren't responsible for nurturing these little turds.[/quote?

 

You call men little turds yet men are the hateful ones on here.

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You call men little turds yet men are the hateful ones on here.
That's quite the spin but nothing unusual. Why are you conflating misogynistic men with self-entitlement complexes, with men?
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That's quite the spin but nothing unusual. Why are you conflating misogynistic men with self-entitlement complexes, with men?

 

Because sometimes it feels that women really mean all men but don't want to come out and say it.

 

I don't agree with everything these MRAs say but at the end of the day who else has my back? If I distance myself from it where else do I turn to?

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Because sometimes it feels that women really mean all men but don't want to come out and say it.

 

I don't agree with everything these MRAs say but at the end of the day who else has my back? If I distance myself from it where else do I turn to?

You make things up in your head, in order to align. Pure fiction and disgustingly disingenuous.
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You make things up in your head, in order to align. Pure fiction and disgustingly disingenuous.

 

No I don't. Everything I have told you about my story is 100% true.

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Because sometimes it feels that women really mean all men but don't want to come out and say it.

I don't agree with everything these MRAs say but at the end of the day who else has my back? If I distance myself from it where else do I turn to?

 

No I don't. Everything I have told you about my story is 100% true.
The bolded is made up garbage.
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The bolded is made up garbage.

 

Maybe not you but with some women you can just feel the hatred coming from them.

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Maybe not you but with some women you can just feel the hatred coming from them.
Why would any woman love misogynistic men unless misogynistic men feel they're entitled to be nurtured by women yet do nothing but spit in their faces?

 

Oh wait, isn't that what I've previously expressed about self-entitled little turds?

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Why would any woman love misogynistic men unless misogynistic men feel they're entitled to be nurtured by women yet do nothing but spit in their faces?

 

Oh wait, isn't that what I've previously expressed about self-entitled little turds?

 

It's not just the misogynists. I just feel that I have nowhere else to turn but the MRAs.

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It's not just the misogynists. I just feel that I have nowhere else to turn but the MRAs.
Any idea what the terms delusion and denial mean, within the psychiatric community?
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Most working people in general do grunt jobs men or women.

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Any idea what the terms delusion and denial mean, within the psychiatric community?

 

I am not delusional. Sometimes I just feel like the only allies I really have are the MRAs.

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I am not delusional. Sometimes I just feel like the only allies I really have are the MRAs.
So your wife is dirt?
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So your wife is dirt?

 

I never said that.

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I am not delusional. Sometimes I just feel like the only allies I really have are the MRAs.

 

I never said that.
Why can't you turn to your wife? Of the years and years on LS, spouting misogynistic garbage, how many LS women have spent years trying to help you but instead of changing, you make stuff up in your head and spew more misogynistic garbage?
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Why can't you turn to your wife? Of the years and years on LS, spouting misogynistic garbage, how many LS women have spent years trying to help you but instead of changing, you make stuff up in your head and spew more misogynistic garbage?

 

Where am I spouting misogynist garbage? I always post about how I hate gender wars and I wish men and women would stop hating each other but it should go both ways. What is so wrong about mutual respect between men and women? Is that such a bad concept or should it only go both ways?

 

I sometimes turn to my wife but every time I discuss with other men they tell me opening up to a woman is the kiss of death for a relationship so I am just confused and don't know what to do.

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Where am I spouting misogynist garbage? I always post about how I hate gender wars and I wish men and women would stop hating each other but it should go both ways. What is so wrong about mutual respect between men and women? Is that such a bad concept or should it only go both ways?

 

I sometimes turn to my wife but every time I discuss with other men they tell me opening up to a woman is the kiss of death for a relationship so I am just confused and don't know what to do.

Are these MRA, PUA and other misogynistic men who tell you not to turn to your wife? And you choose to listen to men who hate women? Hello? Logic would dictate that when someone has an agenda, they're the last people to listen to.
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Are these MRA, PUA and other misogynistic men who tell you not to turn to your wife? And you choose to listen to men who hate women? Hello? Logic would dictate that when someone has an agenda, they're the last people to listen to.

 

Sometimes yes but when I go on those sites and listen to them it just resonates with me.

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I want to turn to my wife but there are some things I want to discuss elsewhere and who better than men who have been through what I have been through and understand where I am coming from.

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Sometimes yes but when I go on those sites and listen to them it just resonates with me.
Ever heard of confirmation bias? In seeking what you want to hear, it reinforces the irrational gender binary structure that you've constructed in the past as a self-defense mechanism. To believe otherwise will rock that construct which makes you feel defenseless.

 

It's much like the abusive relationship dynamic when women remain with abusive spouses, sometimes even subconsciously agitating for abuse because it's their comfort zone. This is what love means to them, pain and neverending drama, since that's what they learned growing up in abusive family environments.

 

Do you understand how this relates to you? You agitate and aggravate women to take the polar opposite side, in order to hold onto your victim construct. This is what you know, your comfort zone.

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Ever heard of confirmation bias? In seeking what you want to hear, it reinforces the irrational gender binary structure that you've constructed in the past as a self-defense mechanism. To believe otherwise will rock that construct which makes you feel defenseless.

 

It's much like the abusive relationship dynamic when women remain with abusive spouses, sometimes even subconsciously agitating for abuse because it's their comfort zone. This is what love means to them, pain and neverending drama, since that's what they learned growing up in abusive family environments.

 

Do you understand how this relates to you? You agitate and aggravate women to take the polar opposite side, in order to hold onto your victim construct. This is what you know, your comfort zone.

 

It's not the response from women. When I read the things posted on these blogs I find myself nodding my head in agreement. It's usually after reading misandrist boards which are just as vile and I am looking for ammo to fight back.

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It's not the response from women. When I read the things posted on these blogs I find myself nodding my head in agreement. It's usually after reading misandrist boards which are just as vile and I am looking for ammo to fight back.
You're actively seeking that dysfunctional environment. This is no different than agitating for it, like you do on LS.
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