bluefairy812 Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 accepting your ex is happier without you, knowing he is living his life...countless thoughts running through your mind because your convinced you could've, should have, would have done to make the relationship better to avoid the break up your in now...constantly telling yourself i wish i would have done things different... and finally feeling so sad because you were once so close, and now you are both strangers, picking up the pieces of shattered glass all over the floor, big and small. yesterday i was ok.. today i'm broken again.
NoMoreJerks Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 I totally know the feeling and am going through this myself, 6 days post-break-up. I don't think I will ever get over this, even though I know people will tell me that's what it feels like at first. Sure, there were no guarantees that this was going to work out to begin with, but after months of being together, I had finally started to feel comfortable that it was going somewhere, and then, BAM! I can't say that it came out of nowhere, but at that point I was too emotionally attached to him and emotionally invested in the relationship that I couldn't imagine it falling apart.
Coyoteloco Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 yes it true, its so sad that now we are like strangers and that i dont even know that girl anymore But it DOES get better!! im 2 months in the break up of a 6 year relationship, and im feeling waaaaayyy better than the first week, i think im finaly getting over this. No contact is very important! and also unfriend her on facebook. And dont dare to look at old pictures of you too or read letters she wrote you. Thats the only way to erease her from your mind. Yes it hurts to see her with other men, but remember that the one that laughs last laughs better, vengance is better cold, ;P So maybe they are now with some douchebag and maybe now their lifes seem so good without you. But sooner or later they will realize what they gave up, how good life was with you. And sometimes they will fake happines (my ex does that) she always trys to seem so happy and on facebook she seems shes having so much fun, well she is liar! she calls me crying and 2 min later she is laughin in her facebook wall with a friend ??? dont believe that ****. So life got pretty tough to me, my 6 year first love left me for some douchebag, my dad is on surgery for the second time this month, one of my best friends i know since im 2 years old is in rehab and i didnt even know he was using :S , my family is going through some money issues, all of this happened in only 2 months o.O i just laugh at all of this and smile, thiings cant be like this forever and i know ill come out of this. After all life was always good to me until now, we make the future with each step foward we take.
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