jayy23 Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 It's been just over 6months since my ex left me and I have been in NC for 74days haven't heard from her in that time. When she left I put all the stuff like cards pictures and some other things in a box and put it away I've not looked at it since I put it away about 5months ago but tonight I brought it out and had a look through. It's weird all that time with someone and all I have is a shoe box of memories. I didn't get emotional when looking through I smilled at some things and laughed at others I got sik of seeing the word forever in all the cards it just feels like a lie. I would still like to here from her to see how she is doing but I don't want to be the one who reaches out. She has left me on a bit of a hook last time we spoke she said that she would come and see me and that was ment to happen over 2months ago so she's kinda left me thinking about if that's goina happen.
lovehurts5 Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 It really is crazy that you can fit so many meaningful memories into a box. I like how you put that. I got out of a 4 year relationship about 5 months ago. I definitely feel the same way whenever I see something that reminds me of him. It puts a smile on my face and then I miss it. I had been no contact about 103 days NC and I thought about him every single day, I still do. He finally reached out about a week and a half ago but that was that. You never know when they will reach out you just hope they do. Keep your head up.
g450 Posted September 20, 2012 Posted September 20, 2012 I feel for ya. I had an entire house of stuff with memories to sort through. Some are still there. We are talking about over twenty years of acumulation of stuff together along with my Son's stuff. When I remaried my new wife went through a lot of it and gave it away or threw it away. It wasnt easy for me but it helped in the long run.
Author jayy23 Posted September 20, 2012 Author Posted September 20, 2012 I feel for ya. I had an entire house of stuff with memories to sort through. Some are still there. We are talking about over twenty years of acumulation of stuff together along with my Son's stuff. When I remaried my new wife went through a lot of it and gave it away or threw it away. It wasnt easy for me but it helped in the long run. I guess I'm kinda lucky then that we didn't live together even tho we had picked out a flat that we were going to be moving into together not long before she fin with me. She ended up moving into that flat without me and replaced me with a friend to help pay the rent.
skydiveaddict Posted September 20, 2012 Posted September 20, 2012 When she left I put all the stuff like cards pictures and some other things in a box and put it away Throw it in the trash She has left me on a bit of a hook last time we spoke she said that she would come and see me and that was ment to happen over 2months ago so she's kinda left me thinking about if that's goina happen. It's not going to happen.
MonsterMash Posted September 20, 2012 Posted September 20, 2012 Not me. If shes gone, her **** is gone too. I live my life like they never existed.
Author jayy23 Posted September 20, 2012 Author Posted September 20, 2012 Throw it in the trash It's not going to happen. It's not something that I want to do to be honest to many good memories but at the same time I'm not goina go back and forth looking at it. It's put away. The things that are in it are the things that mean the most.
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