Calico Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 2 weeks later I find out he is getting married or so he says. I confront him about it. He says ive told you before that its over ... 3 weeks later I get a call from him from a blocked number. It never ceases to amaze me just how much some people suck. What are individuals like him even thinking? Sorry this happened to you. 1
Svet74 Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 It never ceases to amaze me just how much some people suck. What are individuals like him even thinking? Sorry this happened to you. Yeah I dont get it either. He is messed up all over. Sometimes i want to blame it on the painpills and alcolol? should i feel bad for someone who is an addict, and kept lying to cover up? I dont know
Calico Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 Alcohol changes who you are, and it's a pretty strong depressant (been there, done that, minus the painkillers). But it's not an excuse for everything. Particularly not for giving you hope and then marrying someone else a few weeks later. That is just rude, inconsiderate and unforgivable jerk behavior. Moodiness and irritability come with alcohol, randomly marrying people doesn't. As long as he is lying about his addiction, there's no future anyway. It's a large step from "not lying" to "stopping to drink", and he's not even anywhere near the first part.
suladas Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 Agreed it's no excuse. No one forces you to starting using them.
suladas Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 One thing though that helped me from hating my ex was looking back at her past and what has happened to her when her divorce ended. For two reasons, one she has had it pretty bad, two I mean it wasn't that bad, especially considering how bad many people have been treated by an ex. Or maybe it's just me giving her an excuse, I don't know but she did have it pretty bad.
Svet74 Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 Alcohol changes who you are, and it's a pretty strong depressant (been there, done that, minus the painkillers). But it's not an excuse for everything. Particularly not for giving you hope and then marrying someone else a few weeks later. That is just rude, inconsiderate and unforgivable jerk behavior. Moodiness and irritability come with alcohol, randomly marrying people doesn't. As long as he is lying about his addiction, there's no future anyway. It's a large step from "not lying" to "stopping to drink", and he's not even anywhere near the first part. He is not married yet, nor even engaged. Just told him family that he is getting married next yr to some 17 yr old. LOL i know a joke. Half the things he says dont come true anyways. So i doubt he will get married.
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