Jordan185 Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I got to know this girl really well from working with her. I would have conversations with her whenever I saw her. Eventually she started hinting that we should hangout. I actually saw a text she sent to her close friend saying she liked me. I took her on a date she is the one who said it was date not me we had a great time. She couldn't stop laughing the whole time, she was really flirty and kept toching my hands. The next day she told everyone that it was the funnest night of her life and I was a really fun person. I left on vacation for and she told me that she was going to miss me so much. Eventually I took her on another date and we had a similar thing lots of laughing and touching and on the way home resting her head on my shoulder. She checked to make sure that I had got home alright. She would send smiley faces everytime I asked her to do anything. Just a few other things she would get mad when we couldn't hangout and we took lots of pictures together and she didn't care if people saw us together. Eventually down the road her ex wrote her a letter saying how sorry he was and that they should give it another try. She told me that she had never liked me and that she was sorry for leading me on. Her ex would have no idea that any of this was going on so it couldn't have been to make him jealous. He just wasn't around at the time. I gave and would just say hi when I saw her but two months down the road someone caught her smiling at me when I wasn't looking. A few days later some people gave her a rose as a joke from some guy. She said she didn't want flowers from him that she wanted them from me. So she wrote herself a card and signed it from me. She proceeded to tell some people that I gave her flowers and thanked me for them. It angered me so the next day I bought flowers for someone gave them to her while she watched. She was angry because she ignored me after that but today when she looked at me she looked sad. SO WHAT IS THIS GIRL'S DEAL? Any help would be appreciated.
alvarehe Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 Honey, she's immature at best. This "I like you - No I don't" thing is not cool and you should find someone that won't treat you like that. What she is doing is a form of control. She's manipulating the situation to whatever suits her best. Move on and find someone that will treat you with respect.
LittlePrince Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 I got to know this girl really well from working with her. I would have conversations with her whenever I saw her. Eventually she started hinting that we should hangout. I actually saw a text she sent to her close friend saying she liked me. I took her on a date she is the one who said it was date not me we had a great time. She couldn't stop laughing the whole time, she was really flirty and kept toching my hands. The next day she told everyone that it was the funnest night of her life and I was a really fun person. I left on vacation for and she told me that she was going to miss me so much. Eventually I took her on another date and we had a similar thing lots of laughing and touching and on the way home resting her head on my shoulder. She checked to make sure that I had got home alright. She would send smiley faces everytime I asked her to do anything. Just a few other things she would get mad when we couldn't hangout and we took lots of pictures together and she didn't care if people saw us together. Eventually down the road her ex wrote her a letter saying how sorry he was and that they should give it another try. She told me that she had never liked me and that she was sorry for leading me on. Her ex would have no idea that any of this was going on so it couldn't have been to make him jealous. He just wasn't around at the time. I gave and would just say hi when I saw her but two months down the road someone caught her smiling at me when I wasn't looking. A few days later some people gave her a rose as a joke from some guy. She said she didn't want flowers from him that she wanted them from me. So she wrote herself a card and signed it from me. She proceeded to tell some people that I gave her flowers and thanked me for them. It angered me so the next day I bought flowers for someone gave them to her while she watched. She was angry because she ignored me after that but today when she looked at me she looked sad. SO WHAT IS THIS GIRL'S DEAL? Any help would be appreciated. Is crazy bred in the heart or in the head? She's crazy. You just need to ignore her and move on.
todreaminblue Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 I got to know this girl really well from working with her. I would have conversations with her whenever I saw her. Eventually she started hinting that we should hangout. I actually saw a text she sent to her close friend saying she liked me. I took her on a date she is the one who said it was date not me we had a great time. She couldn't stop laughing the whole time, she was really flirty and kept toching my hands. The next day she told everyone that it was the funnest night of her life and I was a really fun person. I left on vacation for and she told me that she was going to miss me so much. Eventually I took her on another date and we had a similar thing lots of laughing and touching and on the way home resting her head on my shoulder. She checked to make sure that I had got home alright. She would send smiley faces everytime I asked her to do anything. Just a few other things she would get mad when we couldn't hangout and we took lots of pictures together and she didn't care if people saw us together. Eventually down the road her ex wrote her a letter saying how sorry he was and that they should give it another try. She told me that she had never liked me and that she was sorry for leading me on. Her ex would have no idea that any of this was going on so it couldn't have been to make him jealous. He just wasn't around at the time. I gave and would just say hi when I saw her but two months down the road someone caught her smiling at me when I wasn't looking. A few days later some people gave her a rose as a joke from some guy. She said she didn't want flowers from him that she wanted them from me. So she wrote herself a card and signed it from me. She proceeded to tell some people that I gave her flowers and thanked me for them. It angered me so the next day I bought flowers for someone gave them to her while she watched. She was angry because she ignored me after that but today when she looked at me she looked sad. SO WHAT IS THIS GIRL'S DEAL? Any help would be appreciated. i would agree she sounds a bit immature you dont play games with peoples emotions by using guys or girls to make others jealous or fill in time while waiting for someone to come back in the real world no push pull yes no its either yes or no and you call it off because really you dont know what you want you dont go backwards in a relationship or return to an old relationship when i have deviated from these beliefs i hold it has caused problems i stick by what i believe in now, a whole less hassle for all involved being true to what i really need.....deb
truth_seeker Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 She used you for her own personal gain. Really evil thing to do to someone. Stay away from her. She seems to have a crazy fixation with you.
Eddie Edirol Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 She was using you as a rebound. I guess her ex dumped her and she was trying to fill the void with you. So dont ever talk to her again.
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