lov3rboy408 Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 My ex gf moved in and lived with me together for 1 year, she dumped me 6 days before our anniversary. I did NC for 10 days and yesterday i found she still have 8 sweaters in the garage. So i texted her said you forgot your sweaters. Now she texted me back asked me when can she pick it up.. But Now i don't want to see her any more.. i still love her a lot but i don't want to see her yet.. we broke up in a good term, she left me because she have no more feeling for me.. we spent the night together even had sex and she cried all night.. and she give me a kiss goodbye. So please tell me.. should i see her and give the sweaters or wait for a while...
Mike_d Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 put them in a box, drop them in the mail. you don't need to see here anymore
geegirl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 1) Have a friend drop it off. 2) Put in box and mail it. Don't give her the sweaters and don't wait for awhile.
Mike_d Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Don't give her the sweaters and don't wait for awhile. as in "don't give her the sweaters in person/face2face, and don't drag it out, do it now and get it behind you"
geegirl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 as in "don't give her the sweaters in person/face2face, and don't drag it out, do it now and get it behind you" Yes, don't give her the sweaters face to face and don't wait for while as in use the sweaters as a means of one day breaking contact to test waters.
CarrieT Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Put them on your doorstep and advise her when she can come and pick them. Don't waste your money on postage... Put the onus of retrieving her stuff on her.
veggirl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Email her and tell her you will put her sweaters in a box on the porch or whatever at X time on Y day and she can pick them up then. A time when you will NOT be home. You're not ready to see her. You guys will get into an emotional conversation and probably have sex or something and you'll be back at Square One.
Author lov3rboy408 Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Yes, don't give her the sweaters face to face and don't wait for while as in use the sweaters as a means of one day breaking contact to test waters. i was thinking keep the sweaters for another week or two and see if she miss me or not .. if that time she don't than i give her the sweaters back.. do you guys think it a good idea... I love this girl a lot and hopping she'll miss me when i NC..
geegirl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 i was thinking keep the sweaters for another week or two and see if she miss me or not .. if that time she don't than i give her the sweaters back.. do you guys think it a good idea... I love this girl a lot and hopping she'll miss me when i NC.. She dumped you. Accept it and start the grieving process. If she wants to reconcile she will, and it won't be because you're using NC as a game or holding onto sweaters.
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