nessaaa Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Do white guys hit on you? That should answer your question observe where you live, how often do u see a black girl with a white guy?
Jamesblame Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I'm biracial but look white (bizzaro Barack Obama ), and I never had a problem dating any girl from any background....though that may be a general side effect of having parents from two different cultures. I know lots of guys that love dating one group of people, but I've NEVER heard of any guy being offended, angry, or turned off by a pretty woman approaching him, regardless of ethnicity or skin tone.
nessaaa Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 BRB, asking every white man on Earth.. Aaaahhaaa funnnyy. IKR? 1
suladas Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I'm biracial but look white (bizzaro Barack Obama ), and I never had a problem dating any girl from any background....though that may be a general side effect of having parents from two different cultures. I know lots of guys that love dating one group of people, but I've NEVER heard of any guy being offended, angry, or turned off by a pretty woman approaching him, regardless of ethnicity or skin tone. Agreed. Guys don't get women coming up to them much if at all so even if they aren't the least bit interested most guys will be happy about the attention. Last weekend I actually got approached at the bar by a girl, she wasn't at all someone I was attracted to, but I did like the attention of a girl coming up to me and was completely nice about it and it's a good ego boost for sure.
SmileFace Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Do you believe that violence, speech patterns and pants are racial characteristics? Don't even bother with this Madam,.. Sigh 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Don't even bother with this Madam,.. Sigh I know … my trigger fingers got the better of me once again.
SmileFace Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I know … my trigger fingers got the better of me once again. Is that what these little devil play things are called!! Hmmph...hehe Don't worry I was tempted but every time I get into those discussions Little Prince appears to insult Kaylan and I don't need that right now.. lol
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Okay then! Back to the topic. OP - from what you have shared about yourself during your time with us here, I think you have many qualities that should put a semi-conscious man of any color off from dating you, and your race would not be one of them. 4
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Okay then! Back to the topic. OP - from what you have shared about yourself during your time with us here, I think you have many qualities that should put a semi-conscious man of any color off from dating you, and your race would not be one of them. You don't know me so again your opinion fits into the little box labeled "irrelevant"
Woggle Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Do you believe that violence, speech patterns and pants are racial characteristics? Of course but for somebody who does write off members of their own race they might have this stereotype in their head.
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 You don't know me so again your opinion fits into the little box labeled "irrelevant" Just food for thought - ALL we know of you is gleaned from your posts here. That is all there is of you, as far as the members of LoveShack are concerned. That goes for all of us. So, as one LoveShack member to another - I know quite enough about you to have formed quite a defined opinion. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Of course but for somebody who does write off members of their own race they might have this stereotype in their head. Sure. If the OP wants to be racist against her own race, that's her prerogative. And I suppose it's no surprise that this attitude would bring other racists out to play.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Just food for thought - ALL we know of you is gleaned from your posts here. That is all there is of you, as far as the members of LoveShack are concerned. That goes for all of us. So, as one LoveShack member to another - I know quite enough about you to have formed quite a defined opinion. I highly doubt you ever read everything on here I have written, you picked the things that would make me out to be a monster and that's fine, I know I have said some stuff I shouldn't have but I still mean everything I said. You don't have to like me at all but in the least be a useful person and give me decent advice OR ignore all my questions.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Sure. If the OP wants to be racist against her own race, that's her prerogative. And I suppose it's no surprise that this attitude would bring other racists out to play. I am not racist against anyone but you like what you like..
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Just food for thought - ALL we know of you is gleaned from your posts here. That is all there is of you, as far as the members of LoveShack are concerned. That goes for all of us. So, as one LoveShack member to another - I know quite enough about you to have formed quite a defined opinion. Now let me be one LoveShack member to another....no one here knows anything close to "quite enough" about another person from a message board where we all have a very limited range and understanding of each other based on over simplified versions we present of ourselves here through a simplified form of communication that is lacking in tone of voice, body language, personal histories and experiences. So no, you don't have all the information you need to form opinions of others. 2
MercuryMorrison1 Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 Sure I will date a black girl. My only requirements are that she act sane and have a decent head on her shoulders...But I hold all potential dates to those standerds. Race is pretty much a non-issue for me as long as I'm attracted to her Physically to some degree and mentally as well.
CptObvious Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 Would I care if other white guys dated a black girl? No. My money ain't on the line so it's none of my business. Would I date a black girl? Yes, but she'd have to meet all the requirements like any other woman.
123321 Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 I always wonder about this because I am black and I pretty much only date white men... I love them! I always wonder if they like dating outside their race. I personally am not like.. Youre average black girl (not to be stereotypical) but I love country I grew up in the burbs I have a valley girl type voice lol all my friends call me Oreo haha I always feel so afraid to approach them because what if I'm not good enough or pretty enough or they only like white women? It just scares me but I know I'm not attracted to black guys so.. I have dated most races but not very many black women, although I have no issue with it. Pretty women come in all colors. One of my brothers is married to an Asian and the other is married to a black woman, so I don't guess there's any family pressure against it
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 19, 2012 Author Posted September 19, 2012 Amen..amen. And you are...?? Oh no one so irrelevant.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 19, 2012 Author Posted September 19, 2012 I can see that by your response. Yes you are.. You have given decent advice but that doesn't make your opinion really relevant to me
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 19, 2012 Author Posted September 19, 2012 I noticed...that would require just a tad bit more . When you give good advice then you can be relevant.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted September 19, 2012 Author Posted September 19, 2012 I will always be relevant...simply because I am not in need of external validation. So long past that point that I have raised children who are past that point. Honestly that's good. I am young and so I mean hopefully I will change or grow out of this. I respect your opinion. So thank you
taiko Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 In this day and age most are open, some are not. Among those who will some will have a preference for Alicia Keys and others for India Arie
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