redhottie2 Posted July 23, 2004 Posted July 23, 2004 Need advise ASAP-- I am new to this site but I really need some advice. I met a guy while visiting friends who lives 400 miles away. We spent the weekend together and had a great time. Since then we have talked and emailed each other at least every other day. It has been a month and he is flying into town tonight. I am wierded out by two things really: 1.)Last week he told me on the phone that he really doesn't like the idea of dating someone who lives 400 miles away. But that he would really want to date me if I lived closer. 2.) Last night he told me he is really stoked about coming out, but is really broke. ( I paid for his ticket 80.00 and he was supossed to pay for half when he gets here.) I am not really concerned about the money-- I am just thinking why in the heck do I even bother? So my question is this ?? How am I supossed to act around him?? Where I come from friends don't do the same things that boyfriends do-- I guess I am just conflicted and confused.
stormy Posted July 23, 2004 Posted July 23, 2004 hey so is he coming out to see you specifically >? or just to visit a group of friends. I think just because someone doesnt like the idea of long term relationships doesnt mean they wont do it. i think u should be really friendly to him but dont allow him to use you in any way.
djshurkey Posted July 24, 2004 Posted July 24, 2004 I agree with stormy on this one. Dont let him try and use you. Just see what happens when you two are together. I am sure you will be able to tell what his feelings are. If he tries to go farther than you think is ok, then let him know.
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