Jane2011 Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 (edited) Ya that's just it. If anything it's being crazy about them. I will say though the first person who you're really crazy about, you're going to get a bit more clingy. Nothing to do with virginity though. I actually clung most to my 4th sexual partner. Big time. I played it very, very cool with partner #1 to the point that he said things like this to me: "It seems like you don't care." "So if it works out, that's fine? If it doesn't, that's fine? Que sera sera?" I was like, "Yeah, pretty much." It wasn't an act, either. This was in large part because, although I thought him cute and sexy as hell, I also saw him as a little lower than me in league in some important ways. Not all, but a couple. It's not all about whether it's your first or not. Just how you view the person in general. Are you in love or not, and how much so? I was in love...or infatuation, at least. He wasn't the be all-end all, though. Person # 4, who happened years later after I had experience and when one would presumably no longer be wary of my stage5 clinger factor, I was a major stage 5 clinger. Edited September 18, 2012 by Jane2011
todreaminblue Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 This is a very good point. Some men will be turned off becasue they can't bang you like a porn star when they find out you're a V. Go for a good man who will handle the situation right. guys have to realise most porn is not real they loop it, cut it and air brush it then add extra audio voila ....porn ......any woman can ACT like a porn star dont even need sex to do it......just add voices like you are eating chocolate....mmmmmm ahhhhh mmmmm more........chocolate....lol......pass the double fudge please......whew feel good ...see....smilin...yes good guys know porn is scrap sex......deb
Author TiredSpinster1 Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Thanks for the replies. Most of you have said to wait for the right person. That makes the most sense- Im just anxious about how much longer Im going to have to wait. I dont blow guys to make them like me I do it because I like to do it. I like seeing a guy get all excited even if I dont want them long term. I do have a sex drive and its only been in the past 2 years Ive realized that. Being sick and all I didnt even think about that stuff before, now I feel like Im 18 years old and want to experiment sexually, which is why Ive done so much other stuff with several guys. I know you can get std's from oral sex but some reason I assume most people get them from actual sex so I dont want my first time to be with a total manwhore. The dildo thing I never thought about I might try that though I imagine that will still hurt
KungFuJoe Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Don't worry too much about it and don't expect your first time to be with your true love. If you want to **** just to get it out of your system...go find a guy you are physically attracted to and just do it! That's what Wholigan did and it worked out great for him. Well..except the "he" was a "she" but you know what I mean. And definitely pay no mind to greznog...I'm half inclined to believe he's really a virgin himself who just goes around regurgitating tired old gender specific sexual stereotypes.
InJest Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 If you're blowing them, you may as well **** them.
NoMoreJerks Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 don't expect your first time to be with your true love. If you want to **** just to get it out of your system... ^ this....
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