rcgj Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 so my gf hangs out with a person who i hated before i met her...she met both of us around the same time..well this guy has told her that he likes and wants to date her etc. he buys her flowers, does things for her, takes out to eat movies etc...we always argue about this guy..she has told me he is just a friend and see him only as that..she told him that and he got mad, they stopped talking and now he is back...i trust her but i hate this guy and i hate how continues to go after her. im a being jealous? should i worry? what can i tell her to comprehend my side?
CptObvious Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Do you have any problems with killing someone and getting away with it?
veggirl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Well the "he's my enemy" thing is weird and very childish, BUT her interactions with this guy sound really inappropriate. NO guy would be buying his just-a-friend flowers and gifts and crap. She is totally disrespecting your relationship by engaging this guy. How old are you guys? She just likes male attention, she is not going to give that up. May outgrow it at some point if you guys are young but eh.
irin Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 why the hell do you have an enemy, are you a mafia boss or some ganglord? 1
InJest Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 (edited) Break up with her. This girl is an attention whore, so she will flip if you break up with her, and she'll probably do what you want. At least for a while. You could also just pull back emotionally and start looking for other girls. Stop initiating contact, unless its for sex. She'll start to crave your attention then. Edited September 18, 2012 by InJest 1
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