deepika Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 We are into a relationship from last 7 months and we were clear on the fact that we will not get married. Once he asked me even that will he be able to be with him all through his life, that time i didn't responded. and now he is getting engaged and i am feeling bad...... He says that we can be good friends but i know that i will feel jealous and insane when i will find him talking to some other girl or behaving in the same manner as he was with me..... And the irony is that he is My office mate and any how i have to meet him daily, cant even avoid him. Guide me out, i am really disturbed... What should i do now? Should i stay with him or move on?
lookinxforxchange Posted September 20, 2012 Posted September 20, 2012 We are into a relationship from last 7 months and we were clear on the fact that we will not get married. Once he asked me even that will he be able to be with him all through his life, that time i didn't responded. and now he is getting engaged and i am feeling bad...... He says that we can be good friends but i know that i will feel jealous and insane when i will find him talking to some other girl or behaving in the same manner as he was with me..... And the irony is that he is My office mate and any how i have to meet him daily, cant even avoid him. Guide me out, i am really disturbed... What should i do now? Should i stay with him or move on? to be honest with you just when you walk by him don't stare at him or even say hi just look away like you are looking at something cause he wants you to make eye contact with him that way he can see you looking and brag about him and his new mate so id just blow him off like hes a piece of garbage cause you deserve better if he loved you he would of wanted to work things out
Author deepika Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 Am sure he loves me, these are just the social barriers that he is following, otherwise he could have asked me to go out of his life, but he didnt. If he is asking to be his friend that mens that he loves me yet as well. He got engaged just two days back but he is calling me regularly to make me feel comfortable.
LostOne1 Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 this is a tough one, because you have to see this guy daily... but somehow you guys need to stop contact. I don't get why he is even contacting you if he's engaged? If so, then his current gf will not last long. I think you need to let this guy go, how is he any good to you? I mean he leaves you for someone else... do you want a guy like this? A guy that loves you would FIGHT for you.. he wouldn't treat you like crap. And if he does, at least has the guts to admit he messed up and want to take some time off to work on himself.
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