justatel Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Hi, Recently i was on NC for a week when my ex started messaging me asking hows my school n stuff, i just responded in a platonic way, maybe shes thinking im with someone else and today she sent me a message catching me by surprise, she asked if we still wanna go cycle together or u alr found someone else to cycle with? What should i do?
bluefairy812 Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Hi, Recently i was on NC for a week when my ex started messaging me asking hows my school n stuff, i just responded in a platonic way, maybe shes thinking im with someone else and today she sent me a message catching me by surprise, she asked if we still wanna go cycle together or u alr found someone else to cycle with? What should i do? breadcrumbs. she has put you in the friend zone. decline and don't respond to her anymore unless she begs and cries for you to be with her. this is an open opportunity to be hurt. don't do it. and stay NC!
Author justatel Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Its so tempting to accept but at the same time im scared ill be hurt even more..
bluefairy812 Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Its so tempting to accept but at the same time im scared ill be hurt even more.. i know trust me. i went NC for 4 weeks and the ex called and texted. i over analyzed everything. in the end, it was just to ride himself of his guilt and to make sure i was OK. i ended up breaking it and was feeling hurt. as if i never even started NC. i started at the bottom. this is where i am now. it's not worth it. he was being friendly.. and this is what your ex is doing. just being friendly. don't respond. you will be hurt especially if you want more than just friendship. 1
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